Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My family keeps trying to push me away from the army saying it isn't for black women and that I need a real job and how they would devastated if I went thru with it , I'm so freakin sick of this mess 😔
Motherhood ripped from me again... I went for my Anatomy Scan on Friday @ 20wks. I went in expecting to find out if my baby is a boy or girl, but came out feeling like I'm going to die.
Checked in at 4am february 1st.. started my pitocin drip at 5. I was 3cm dilated when i checked in. Things were progressing pretty slowly until my doctor broke my water at 7 am. I got my epidural done when i was 7 cm dilated, my nurse came in to check me and said baby was in plus 1 station. From there it went rather quickly, once my cervix was complete, she did practice pushes with me, i did 3 practice pushes with a few contractions and she said not to practice push anymore because baby was crowning already. She went and got my doctor, 2 real pushes later and baby was out ! I have 2 tears, 6 stitches, and ones a 2nd degree. We got released the next day ! So glad to be home but its very stressful that my daughter isnt adjusting well. Jeremiah wayne havis, born at 10:56 a.m. february 1st, weighing 6 pounds 1 ounce at birth, 19 1/2 inches long. When we checked out he was 5 pounds 14 ounces. Born at 38 weeks 6 days!
My birth story! (It's long lol) This is my little Uriah. I can't explain how much love I feel looking at his face. The pain was completely worth it. So I was awake after watching a movie with my mom and I decided to get some food and go up to dh. After I ate my water broke because I did squats lmao!!! I did 3 squats and on the third one my water burst, that was at 2:43am, I then went down to tell my mom but didn't have any contractions yet. I got to the hospital around 4:15 and at 5 they came and checked me and I was still a 2, they said I had to be monitored for a while and tried to say they were going to start pitocin and I said no. I'm doing this naturally. And they said well how do you plan on doing that, and I said I'll walk around to help myself dilate. So I did that and at 7 I was a 4-5 90% effaced, came back at 11 and I was 7cm 50% effaced, they checked at 12:30 and I was 8cm 0% and then at 1:30 I was 8-9 0%. So she had me turn on my side because my cervix was sitting up high on my right side. I had two strong contractions laying on my left side and then he dropped and my body started pushing without me doing it. They had me lay on my back as I was a 10 and they could see his head and I did two big long pushes and he was out! Did immediate skin to skin for two hours and he nursed the whole time. ?? Also if it wasn't for dh I would have probably tried to get up and go home and say forget it we aren't having a baby today lmao! I went from crying from contractions at 7cm to being able to breathe through them so quietly and calmly that they didn't hurt as bad at even 9cm. My mom rubbed my back for me the whole time and I'll forever be grateful to her for doing that. I'm so happy with my little prince and his daddy just cried when he saw him. So much love in that room.
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Congrats! I was waiting!!! Beautiful baby mama. Good job
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I am SOOOO happy for you both!! She's so absolutely gorgeous!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ my heart is so full for you and your family love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️