So upset right now... I hate when family ask to stay with my husband & I for days at a time. They just come in & take over! I'm trying not to flip out cuz they are there when I need them from time to time, but I don't know how much more my husband & I can take. All we want is alone time & my family thinks my house is a hotel & my car is Uber. I'm so frustrated! I just want to cry. We can't focus on trying to have a baby cuz my family is turning our marriage & house into hell.
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@littleonemorning THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING! I just don't know what to say without being mean because they take everything completely the wrong way & I know my mother will snap & then I will too but not to disrespect her. How can we start a family when we can never have alone time....they won't take me serious.
You need to put your foot down. I understand you don't want to step on toes because they are there for you, but you guys are your own family now. That is your focus and they need to respect that.
I hope it gets better. ❤️
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
Soo, my mom is taking her week of vacation when I go into labor and is supposed to be staying at our house to help with the baby. It's not that I don't appreciate it, but my husband will also be off work and I kinda want this to be our family time getting used to having a baby together. Idk how to feel about it lol. I know everyone will want to be visiting and everything, I just want my husband and I to have our little bonding time with her.
Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital?
I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
@chanelcook, first I would sit down with your husband, only because I know that I myself like to have a sound board. That way you can think worse casenerio too. And maybe don't start with your mom? Or ask them why they are there for so long or whatever it is?
Best of all, be honest. If you explain you guys are trying to start a family, maybe that could help ease the tension. You know your family better then I do 😊