So upset right now... I hate when family ask to stay with my husband & I for days at a time. They just come in & take over! I'm trying not to flip out cuz they are there when I need them from time to time, but I don't know how much more my husband & I can take. All we want is alone time & my family thinks my house is a hotel & my car is Uber. I'm so frustrated! I just want to cry. We can't focus on trying to have a baby cuz my family is turning our marriage & house into hell.
@chanelcook, first I would sit down with your husband, only because I know that I myself like to have a sound board. That way you can think worse casenerio too. And maybe don't start with your mom? Or ask them why they are there for so long or whatever it is?
Best of all, be honest. If you explain you guys are trying to start a family, maybe that could help ease the tension. You know your family better then I do 😊
@littleonemorning THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING! I just don't know what to say without being mean because they take everything completely the wrong way & I know my mother will snap & then I will too but not to disrespect her. How can we start a family when we can never have alone time....they won't take me serious.
You need to put your foot down. I understand you don't want to step on toes because they are there for you, but you guys are your own family now. That is your focus and they need to respect that.
I hope it gets better. ❤️
Best of all, be honest. If you explain you guys are trying to start a family, maybe that could help ease the tension. You know your family better then I do 😊