Everyone tells me (especially with Sammy) how do you have so much patience!? OMG really?! No, at least I don't think I do lol. I think patience is something that I still need to work on. And not just in dealing with Sammy and her impulsiveness but in my life in general! I'm getting better every day don't get me wrong but when you see your goal and it's just within reach you want it NOW!
I use to give up! I did if I couldn't get what I was aiming for in the first attempt I quit even if I had made progress towards what I wanted. But that's not how you get anywhere! You have to keep pushing and going, I have to keep pushing and going and eventually, we (yes we cause you're gonna be right there with me) will, with patience succeed!
*MIC drop!*
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.

Opinions!! We are putting the house on the market soon and my realtor thinks we need to upgrade to granite. Only problem is, for a kitchen this size, the cheapest quote I got was $3,800. Everyone is telling me not to do it, they don't think there is a good enough ROI. What do you think?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I was thinking about it when I go into labor I think imma go live on fb threw the whole thing till I have to push lol that would be cool right or weird lol let me know I'll add you on fb if you want lol