I honestly want my son to have a relationship with his father but I really can't handle this man. He is not ready to…
I honestly want my son to have a relationship with his father but I really can't handle this man. He is not ready to have a child. He hasn't bought anything yet. We are no longer together. We broke up and I found someone. I hate how my boyfriend acts more like the dad then the actual father. This man scares me. Things that he does and says are not right. I'm mainly pissed off at the fact that I was pushed into a kitchen table at 13 weeks. He told me he wanted me to get an abortion. He didn't want this perfect little baby. He is only doing this because he wants to cause me more stress I'm tired of him. He just wants to keep having control over me. I'm tired of his shit and I want to protect my baby from having that man around him.
Elle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
Wait so your boyfriend is doing this? Or the father of your child? If it is your boyfriend you need to get out of that situation hun. It's not safe for you or your baby!
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@aboutellesbabes, it's my sons father
Elle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
Okay sorry I'm tired. Is there any way that your boyfriend now can always be around whenever the dad is around? For protection purposes? When the babe is born he could even stay in another room while the dad sees his son.. I'm just worried about you being alone with him!
bunny·
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Id stay far away from him. When he's ready to grow up he'll come around. It's not worth him being in your childs life. Sorry, but this man seems unstable mentally.
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)
If I don't let him see my son I'll get taken to court and I dont want to get in trouble for this. I want to get full custody but I know he will try to fight it.
bunny·
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This is a scary situation. Did you go to the hospital or call the police when he harmed you during pregnancy? Take as much info as you can if your willing to take him to court for full custody. I would be terrified to leave my child with him.
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@callher_bunny, I was just so frustrated at irritated. I grabbed a frying pan and chased him with it. I acted crazy and it wasn't the way to handle it
bunny·
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@annmelendybrooke He's trying to drive you mad so don't let him win. I'm glad you're with someone that can fulfill your wants.
Erica Williams·
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I agree with @mamaprince don't put his name on the birth certificate and make sure you keep receipts. Just in case he tried to pull some bs and say he's been doing things. If he can't produce proof, it'll make him look like he's lying. If you need to, get a restraining order. I'm pretty sure if you filed police reports, he won't be able to be near you or your son. You son is more important than your ex is. It's ok to want him to have a relationship with his dad, but you have to think about rather he can be trusted with him, considering what he's done and said. If you can help it, please don't spend alone time with your ex, he definitely seem untrustworthy and unstable.
Buddhist Mama·
My ex husband told me to get an abortion when I was pregnant with my son and he never wanted his son because of that. Its fucked up. I don't know why some men act like that