I always wanted my children to be atleast a year apart .. My kids are 17 months apart .. but I never…

How does he act?

Well i only have a 3 yr old and plan on having another kid next year but what i would recommend and i dont know if this would work but wprth a shot try to get him more involved with her giving her a soft hug or kiss on the cheek and letting him hold her for a bit i know he is really young yet but he will slowly bond with her but just make sure u dont give her more attention then him because then he wont like it....hope this helps!

@beebaby some times he's happy sometimes he's kinda mean.. some times he won't even look at her

@jsandhu19.js he fed her and held her but he's kind of rough.. he would sometimes try to "hit at her" but I stop him before he does .

Have him help with her but at the same timw give him his own personal time with you

@momlife365 let him bond wit her I had 2 do it wit my oldest he's young yes but I've seen it happen my cousin had her kids back 2 back and they have a great bond

My nephew is 3 and his sister is 1

He did not like her for a very long time. I guess they have to adjust to having another baby around. He even hit her too. (He got the asswhooping of a life time)

But he never did it again. But over time he warmed up to her

And his parents always talked to him and they refer to her as "his baby" so he's actually protective of her now. And thinks she's His baby 🤗

But it was rough

We let our son hold his sister if he sits next to us and he is always giving her kisses and he has never really been around kids he also wanted to help bottle feed when I was out and my husband let him he also helped me change her diaper we let him lay with her

@beebaby he's just so rough, and it freaks me out .

@torrey_ yes he hit her today and I was so hurt .. I don't think he did it on purpose .. I don't know why he did it tbh , he's a super rough kid and it's so hard . I didn't think he liked her at first bc when he seen her he pointed at her and rolled his eyes and didn't want to look at her anymore . . 😣😝 but sometimes he's happy some times he's mean and not interested.

@mommysbabies he's held her but it get to a point where he start to pinch her and stuff like that

My son was 1 when I had my daughter which he didn't like at first but as they bonded over the months the easier it got they grow together an love as well an now they are 4 an 3 yrs old so it just take time for the Lil one adjust to the newborn an grow an bond together over the months

@asiaanddonovanmommy I hope he starts to come around , it's hard . And I don't want him to feel rejected by us .. but he do so much towards her

Yeah my son has slapped my daughter his dr and I were talking about this she has two close in age and she said to just tell him no that unfortunately it's just him being a toddler he doesn't mean it to just not scream at him which is what we do

@mommy2be26 hope he gets straight lol it's much harder with daddy working and I have a c section incision .. and he's a busy kid

@momlife365, that's how my nephew was. And we would've never thought he would hit her but we saw him doing repeatedly on camera

Like it was casual. But after that whooping he never did it again and he loves He little sister. It does taking getting adjusting to. He's not mean to her anymore but it was a process

@mommysbabies yea my son got his ass whooped for that.. he hit her so hard across the head..

@momlife365, unfortunately its just going to take time

She was like 8 months when he thought it was ok to hit but they got better and your kids will be best friends. She'll be bossing her big brother around in no time lol

@torrey_ girl.. I try not to keep them too separated bc I want them yo bond but the child is a lot to handle and I don't like to whip kids but he got his ass tore

Yes I did have c section with my daughter it was hard but I wore the brace they gave me at the hospital to hold my uterus back in place an that help some as well but also I was a single mom at that time too so it was hard but I got use to it over time an now mine 4 n 3 Yr get on my nerves lol an fight all the time also they do keep my feet too that part will never get easy but growing an bonding will

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@momlife365 yeah he seems to feel like she took his spot which you need to make sure you give him more attention and try to give him time with her slowly and talk more to him. All kids do that at the beginning my nephew did but he will realize soon enough just be patient:)

@torrey_ girl no my baby only 4 days old lol

@jsandhu19.js thank you