Tell me if my feelings are wrong. So on Monday I asked my boyfriend to come to my 20 week…
Tell me if my feelings are wrong. So on Monday I asked my boyfriend to come to my 20 week appointment and he said "Sure Why not". So today I told him that I don't think he's ready for a baby, and he calls me telling me that I'm getting on HIS fucking nerves. No, you're getting on mine. I've been alone and it seems like you don't care. So he tried to make it seem like I was mad because he didn't respond to me which is not why I was mad at all. Am I in the wrong?
Simone·
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Well, what made you tell him he wasn't ready for a baby? Was it the "sure why not"?
deleted-user·
Right, why did you say that?
Mommaa Miiaa ·
Yes because he said sure why not as if he didn't care to see the gender. The reason why I said he wasn't ready for a baby is because he went out partying last night but can't make time for the appointment.
Mommaa Miiaa ·
His priorities are all messed up..
Mimi·
He said sure why not..Men respond differently then women do and we fail to realize this all the time if he didn't wanna go he would have said something like I'm not sure I'll let you know or maybe. Just my opinion 🤷🏻♀️
Mommaa Miiaa ·
Yeah true, I just feel like if he can go to the club but couldn't give me a straight answer to come to the appointment. I just feel like he has the freedom to not go but I don't have that. Maybe I'm just hormonal but it just rubbed me the wrong way.
Simone·
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Yeah, I think it was a little bit of an overreaction too. Whatever he did the night before wouldn't be a factor unless he said no he didn't want to go. Just my opinion too! I don't think it's worth stressing.
Mommaa Miiaa ·
I'm def not stressing over it. I mean I do think I overreacted a bit but still feel I am right but that's my opinion. I appreciate it, I did apologize that night but I still feel like he could've said yes instead of why not. He says I'm stressing him out though I can see why he's stressed but I'm stressed as well.