Talk to him about it. Last thing you want to do is be taking care of 2 kids with no help from him because he doesn't have mutual feelings about it. My husband had 2 kids before we were married we have 2 kids together now but after this he said he's done so I'll respect that I don't really have a choice 🤷🏽‍♀️

I would say go for it mama🤗 my hubby has 2 other children 1 from his ex he was 17 when she was born. she is 17 now in 3 days. And one from a one night stand 😑she is 8 years old now i love them both. Although we havent seen my 8 yo stepdaughter in over a year😢. We have 3 children together 3 yo , 2 yo, and a 4 month old.