I am wanting another babie :)
But my man barely helps as is. And he already has another child that is 7 years old from his ex that passed so he has 2 not counting the one his ex gave for adoption :/ so techically 3 ....what should I do when we one child together and that actually lives with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
How yu gonna argue with me because i find child support stupid af if the father takes his child has a roof over his head and food in his fridge when he has the kid why does he need to pay you so you have a roof over your head and your bills are paid isnt that your job as a mother. Not fair that a man has to make sure he has everything for himself and his baby at his place and take care of his baby mommas "bills". Smh. To each its own but to argue with me about my opinion. Tf get out my face with that bullshit.
so I just got the most ridiculous phone call so my husbands ex baby momma calls to start shit about what she heard about me from my ex yet then again I think she's making it up cause she's jealous and then proceeds to ask my husband if he wants to give up his rights to his other son. just wondering since she never let's him see his son and he still has rights to him now and pays child support, if he does sign over his rights would he still have to pay child support?
Toya·
Talk to him about it. Last thing you want to do is be taking care of 2 kids with no help from him because he doesn't have mutual feelings about it. My husband had 2 kids before we were married we have 2 kids together now but after this he said he's done so I'll respect that I don't really have a choice 🤷🏽♀️
mirandachristian·
I would say go for it mama🤗 my hubby has 2 other children 1 from his ex he was 17 when she was born. she is 17 now in 3 days. And one from a one night stand 😑she is 8 years old now i love them both. Although we havent seen my 8 yo stepdaughter in over a year😢. We have 3 children together 3 yo , 2 yo, and a 4 month old.