So it's clear my husband was cheating we have that in the open now I have been talking to an old…

You are a married woman, confide in someone else like your parents to talk to, sister, or pastor, GOD for sure, NOT MAN.. Goodluck! Work on your marriage!

Hey momma. If you need a friend.. I'm here . Im sorry you're going through that. No woman deserves to be cheated on.

There is nothing wrong with talking to a man as long as its nothing more than that. 🙄

Also if you have decided you want your marriage to end, then you do what makes you happy. You're husband is the one who flushed it all away, so don't feel bad for taking care of yourself girl!

@damiensmommy1117 did you delete your comment towards me? I was about to respond

@firemanswife

I decided to keep it about the main topic. You've got your views and I've got mine and nothing's going to change that, so I figured I might as well not start anything when she's needing some real help.

@damiensmommy1117, well this friend I have known since 8th grade lol nothings never happened sexually between us we haven't talked in years all I know is he wants me to come see him of course he doesn't want anything because he knows I'm still married he just wants to see each other so we can talk face to face and stuff I just feel like I don't need to because it may make me feel bad then again my husband wasn't worried about me when he was sleeping with 5 different females thanks for the advice though I prob won't be seeing him yet my husband is calling me today and I am prob going to tell him I'm gonna end things because I don't know what he is expecting from me

@firemanswife, yea lol I'm sorry but my marriage went out the door when my husband decided to Cheat on me over the last 6 months with 5 diff females I was gonna try to work things out but now he is going to do prob about 15 years in prison and well sorry but why should I allow my husband to have a hold of me for 15 years while he is locked up

First of all, IN MY OPINION (I'm assuming you want opinions, advice) from a happily married woman, you don't talk to other men in that way. By discussing marriage problems with someone of the other sex that YOU say yourself you like, you are inviting more drama into your marriage. Even if your husband cheated -- two wrongs don't make a right. What if the tables were turned, how would you feel? So ask yourself: Do you want to work on a marriage in which your husband betrayed your vows and cheated and is also in jail? Or divorce? Seperate? Think of what is best for your children in the long run. Pray about it. Good luck.

@lovelily exactly what I was saying! From one married woman to the next, I just gave the best advice also

@lae1988 God bless!

@lovelily agreed.

@firemanswife, @lovelily, well I am most likely divorcing I don't see my guy friend making any problems for my marriage because that's already happened lol