Anyone awake so my Washer went out and my BFS brother used it and we have to get a new one it was 600$ so we are getting a rebate for our money back because it was a recall by the way I live with the in laws but we paid for Washer and dryer so I told everyone if they can help pitch in to buy a new one 150 each and they will get their money back. The younger brother he's 20 doesn't want to pitch in because he only stayed here for the summer and is going to college I told him he used it no problem he told me i dont even live here but doesn't want to help their is no excuse I'm going to college and have to pay for books am I in the wrong for telling him to pitch in? Ps he has a job and doesn't pay for anything my bf and brothers do
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@blessed_mommy6 I do I told her son that in front of her and she will tell her son's or my bf and have a guilt trip but I told my bf I'm not buying it I see right through that. She's one of those mother in laws who wants her son's to feel bad for her and guilty.
@chibiytino yea I'm going to my grandmother's she said it's ok to do laundry at her house. That's why my boyfriend and I are saving for a house so we can have our own space. I'm so ready.
She needs to stop enabling her son for reals. No women will want to put up with him like that. Tell your mother in law how you feel and to stop making excuses for him
Is there any laundry place u can go ? I would rather go there then have to deal with people's BS,cause people are so ungrateful an no one will take care of your things like u,cause you and only you know how much $ you spend on it
@chibiytino I try not to buy things because things end up broken it was a must the Washer I had was done and the dryer kept snagging our clothes making holes in them
@blessed_mommy6 yea it makes me upset because his mom tries to make excuse to why he can't pay, to me he's grown he can pay for it specially if he uses it. She babys her son he's spoiled at 20. He kept telling me it's bs I shouldnt have to pay for anything. I told him that's fine when you come over then you don't use the Washer and dryer
Or don't buy things for a place that isn't really yours ..just saying
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
not a real wedding. stupid and pointless rant?
My husband and I got married almost 9 years ago. Since at the time we had no money, we were young college students and we couldn't afford anything, we chose to get married at a courthouse with just 2 witnesses (no dress, no engagement ring...)
Yeah just avoid problems better to keep to your self and save for your own place