need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Ruby Weber·
Мама четверых детей
You have every right to ask him to pitch in.
Silvana·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Tell him he can wash his clothes some where else
Silvana·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Or don't buy things for a place that isn't really yours ..just saying
Kat·
@blessed_mommy6 yea it makes me upset because his mom tries to make excuse to why he can't pay, to me he's grown he can pay for it specially if he uses it. She babys her son he's spoiled at 20. He kept telling me it's bs I shouldnt have to pay for anything. I told him that's fine when you come over then you don't use the Washer and dryer
Kat·
@chibiytino I try not to buy things because things end up broken it was a must the Washer I had was done and the dryer kept snagging our clothes making holes in them
Silvana·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Is there any laundry place u can go ? I would rather go there then have to deal with people's BS,cause people are so ungrateful an no one will take care of your things like u,cause you and only you know how much $ you spend on it
Ruby Weber·
Мама четверых детей
She needs to stop enabling her son for reals. No women will want to put up with him like that. Tell your mother in law how you feel and to stop making excuses for him
Kat·
@chibiytino yea I'm going to my grandmother's she said it's ok to do laundry at her house. That's why my boyfriend and I are saving for a house so we can have our own space. I'm so ready.
Kat·
@blessed_mommy6 I do I told her son that in front of her and she will tell her son's or my bf and have a guilt trip but I told my bf I'm not buying it I see right through that. She's one of those mother in laws who wants her son's to feel bad for her and guilty.
Silvana·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah just avoid problems better to keep to your self and save for your own place