Just been feeling stressed out and isolated ever since we talked to my mom. It really didn't make…
Just been feeling stressed out and isolated ever since we talked to my mom. It really didn't make anything better for me. Today she called asking if I invited my bff to my wedding. I did. She asks to MAKE SURE she was invited. I told her I handed her an invitation myself. Did she tell me she was going? No. Did I have to call/text her several times and still get no answer on whether she was going? Yes. So today I posted that whoever has not rsvp'd via mail or to either of us that we don't expect to see. Why? We went over our people count by 25 people with my mom trying to add more people every day. My mother is the same person who told me that I gave my bff too many chances and to drop her as a friend bc were growing apart. She's the friend I've ranted about before that has been selfish. Suddenly shes trying to come back. I'm over both of them. Every day it's something. Not to mention. My mom told my husband that she wants 5k by sept 9th (my wedding day)
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
You shouldn't be stressing. Thats going to drive you crazy
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nmc95 it is but no one seems to care about that. No one meaning my mother
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinpeanut, sometimes you have to just distance yourself from the bullshit. I know it's easier said and done because she's your mom but at the end of the day you have to make sure you're fine.
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nmc95 then she blames my husband saying he's trying to drive a wedge between us. She comes up with constant bullshit
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinpeanut, is your mother married or dating anyone??
lauren·
What exactly is the 5k for if you don't mind asking? And are you footing the bill for your own wedding, if you are that doesn't make sense that she's expecting that sum the day of.
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nmc95 my mom is married they both damn near verbally assaulted us sunday
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinpeanut, mhm I was going to say she's lonely which is probably why she's doing that but she's married and acting like that...
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nerualauren she insisted on paying for my wedding. His mom and i have been paying for the vendors; cake, dj, etc plus dress. Then she had a fit when his mom bought my dress telling me about traditional this and that
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinpeanut, you shouldn't even give a time of day to that stuff though but I know it's easier said than done
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nmc95 she doesn't get that shes being a bitch. I'm always the wrong one
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nmc95 after my wedding im distancing myself from her. Which IM SURE she will blame my husband saying its his fault im being distant
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinpeanut, she probably feel threatened by your mother in law. Like you now essentially you have two mothers and she feel like his mom is taking over.
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына (1 год)
@twinpeanut, i get that . This stuff always happens when people get married. People can't seem to let go of their children when they get married.
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nmc95 sad thing is. I got married last year at jop. This is the ceremony and reception we wanted to have. So she can get over herself. Our wedding will be our first wedding anniversary
lauren·
@twinpeanut, sounds special, having the ceremony on your wedding anniversary... that's. very sweet, hope everything works out for you !!
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Мама дочки-младенца
@nerualauren thank you