Need to change doctors. My doctor has ignored my phone calls for 3 weeks now and she wasn't even sure she would be the one to deliver my baby

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
Question.
When I found out I was pregnant my doctor immediately sent me for blood work and a dating ultrasound. My friend called and told her doctor she was pregnant and they told her to wait till she was like 9 or 10 weeks to be seen.
Is this common? Should she fight to be seen earlier?
Pretty upset at my OB Doctor considering she had said that since I was overweight she is going to assume I have gestational diabetes. And she wants me to deliver at a hospital farther away from my house. 😒 I'm barely even overweight.
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
Hey ladies I have a question my baby is breeched since 20 weeks im 34 weeks now but 2 weeks ago my doctor checked if she was still breeched which she was how do I know if moved head down or if she is how will I know I have my appointment again with doctor on Wednesday so I’m just curious
Some times your dr actually doesn't deliver your baby. My dr didn't, the on call dr delivered him because ny dr wasn't in the hospital yet and i couldn't wait to push they were letting me but i just couldn't not push. So she ended up getting there right after he was born, which i will forever be sad about but in that moment i didn't care 😂