Look it was the other way around for me. I didn't want to tell my parents I was having a child and only recently did I tell them. My bf kept on getting at me about telling them but he didn't understand why I didn't want to tell them. I say let it be. He'll eventually tell them just let him do it on his own. It's HIS parents. He knows them best.

@pnutbutta no 6th

Will this be there first grandchild

@pnutbutta i dont know

They will be happy

Then do it!!

@pnutbutta yea he wont tell them unless i do

No they should know.

I had a similar situation and it annoyed the hell out of me. His family found out when I was 5mths going on 6. Guys act tough but there not. Tell ur bf if he doesn't tell them by a certain time u will do it.

@pnutbutta so you think its better that they never know about their grand child?

Let him handle it. I take it u don't see them often. Do they live lose by?

@pnutbutta not a good enough excuse for withholding from your parents your having a kid

@pnutbutta he doesnt know how theyre going to react

What does he sat when u ask him y? Tell him ur going to talk to the parents.

@pnutbutta he wont tell them

What does ur bf say

@pnutbutta im 5 months already

At the end of the day it's your call but I would leave it up to him. If it got close to the end I would tell them. Have u asked him y he hasn't told them? Maybe nerves?

@pnutbutta not close with the parents, yes involved but we have a rough relationship it should be up to him to tell them but he wont i dont want to go behind his back and tell them cause that would not be good but if i dont noone will and i feel like they have the right to know so idk what to do

Are you close to his parents? Are you involved with the father?