Hi ladies! My son is 16 months (1 year and 4 months) old right now and I was wondering if anyone would give their opinion on the right time to have another. I have an iud and I'm debating on whether or not to get it removed...Part of me thinks the sooner the better but the other part of me says wait until my baby is at least 3 before trying again. I'm 29 currently and my fiancé says he doesn't wanna wait until he's 40 with a newborn (he's 34)...insight anyone? Anyone else have to make a decision like this?