
So I rarely post in here anymore ladies. So trying to catch up. I'm currently 17wks 4days. Things have been so hard being exhausted and sore from this pregnancy while chasing around a very overly active toddler (my daughter is 16 months) I've been working extremely more than I should. I am bartending & waitressing, I'm making a killing doing it but I know it's going to catch up to me soon. My hubby is out fishing all the time (he's a commercial fishermen, so it's not for fun.. it's his job) and he makes amazing $ doing so but I'm barely seeing him at all anymore between my schedule & his. There's barely any one on one time. He also picked up a new hobby called disc golf. It's his new favorite thing to do so if he's not fishing.. he's out playing disc golf with his friends. I'm trying not to get upset because I'm so happy he's found a hobby for himself that he loves doing & keeps him occupied and happy but at the same time I would like to spend a little time with him when I can and he doesn't seem to understand that. I think he's preparing for when the new baby comes because he knows that he won't be able to be out all the time once Andrew Junior is born but I would like to be able to spend time one on one before AJ is born & all my attention will be turned to him. It's all just so very difficult. Would that upset any of you? I've tried talking to him about it and he just seems to get mad at me so idk
For sure talk to him about how much it bothers you. Pregnancy hormones can get the best of you. We always make time for a babymoon during each pregnancy.
Communication and effort will go a long way in a marriage with kids. Good luck mama!
Go frolfing (frisbee golf) with him!! Its SO much fun!! Hubby and I do it all the time, even 9 months pregnant haha
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does your baby father tell you what time to be home like have a curfew ? Because really I'm not a child and I'm not going out drinking or partying it was a child play day and unplanned so of course I didn't wash the dishes if I had known I would of cleaned in advance and cooked but seriously he took it too personal saying I'm in the street all day and it's the last time I do this really do I look ten years old to him ?
Are there learning programs for the summer for 1st graders?? I'm so sad my son has failed and he will be in 1st grade again. 😭😭 he has learning disabilities but I feel like he takes advantage of that and he always wants to be playing and on the phone all the time like I'm so over it! I try my best to teach him and it's like he completely doesn't care and he's only 7years old.. Smh idk what to do.
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls ...
I am honestly in complete shock rn . Me & my bf really just broke up . & the sad part is I'm the one who did the breaking up . I've never seen him so upset . What did I do ? Like I can't even cry . I have no emotion . To know that I just broke up with my boyfriend who I supposedly loved so much . Maybe I didn't love him . Or maybe I couldn't love him the way he needed to be loved. idk all I know is I got tired of being a pain in his ass . I think it's for the best ... He'll find someone who appr...
I need that bra lol