So I just found out that I'm pregnant and I don't have my first appointment until aug 21. But I don't feel happy, I don't know why, I was so happy and excited when I found out I was pregnant with my son. I guess I just feel like I didn't let me son be the baby. And now he has to share his mommy with a new baby. I feel heartbroken and I have cried a lot since finding out I was pregnant. I'm hoping things will get better once I get farther along in my pregnancy. I'm sorry I just needed to let this all out. I feel like a terrible mom for having these feelings 😭😔
I freaked out at first. I found out i was preg when autumn was 9 months old. But as i got farther along and it set in I've become so excited. I still have days where I'm like how tf am i gonna be able to handle 2 kids under 2. But then i relax and tell myself i got this lol
@mommyirene, thank you and congrats to you too. I found out a little after my sons 1st birthday. I'm also thinking excitement will kick in more once I find out the gender
@miranda9696, I was about 6 weeks when I found out as well. My daughter was 9 months at the time. Lol. Well congrats mama. Excitement will kick in soon.
@mommyirene, yes that's exactly how I felt. And I would cry and hug my son and say sorry idk why but I would. According to my last period I'm about 6 weeks since I haven't gotten an actual ultrasound to see how far actual am. But I'm right behind you.
@mommywifelifestyle, yes I can definitely feel the guilt. But I guess what is also hard is that I didn't feel like this with my son.
@miranda9696, it will, you just found out & it’s obviously life changing. That’s an overwhelming feeling! Give yourself a little time to adjust 💕
I felt the same exact way. I hugged my daughter with tears rolling down my face. Saying "you're going to be a big sister" She was looking at me like I was crazy. I don't think I'm as excited yet. I'm like whatever about it. I feel like once I can feel the baby kick and I know the gender I'll be more excited.
Yeah its hormones and maybe tad mom guilt. When I first found out I was pregnant with my son i actually almost passed out and puked. I was so not happy. It took a week or so for me to be somewhat happy then I heard his heartbeat and was thrilled. Now he is almost 2 and i really really want another one but i know i would feel guilty at first.
@eviedoll, thank you. I sure hope so. These emotional hormones are new to me. I never experienced them with my first pregnancy
@mommyirene that's when i found it with my second lol autumn was 9 months old.