I hate the way I look body wise,like really fat honestly I'm 210lbs ,not complaining to gain attention or some sort (I…

@littleonemorning, sure

@littleonemorning, the water thing is DOWN PACKED lol I love water but I'm going to try those others things thank you sweets 😊😘

@intelligentmind2015, fair enough. Then baby steps. Maybe start by getting all the things that tempt you out of the house, go on walks with your baby (even just small ones). Little changes can make a world of a difference. And drinking LOTS of water.

@littleonemorning, that's what I was saying that's why I replied okay like 😂😂 I always taught of doing that but it's more I have to get my life in order so I could start a routine

@hallek129, yes breastfeeding CAN help you lose weight, but it's doesn't do that for everyone. Even if she was breastfeeding, that's wasn't what she was saying.

@intelligentmind2015, I feel for you. It's hard, but I find that days when I'm active and eating well, I feel great about myself, no matter what the scale says. Lots of times if you express your concerns to your doctor that can offer you steps or see a dietician. You have to look long term, which is hard even for me, but being there for your baby is a huge goal for all mommas.

@intelligentmind2015 i feel you girl! I was exactly 200 when i got pregnant. I only gained 33lbs but I'm hella short so that doesn't help anything. I never did make to pre pregnancy weight i was 7lbs shy and i just never made it back. I hate it i feel like people are constantly making fun of me when I go out in public with a ever so slightly fitting shirt on.

@brookemmoore, that's for sure ,my baby snaps me back to reality but it's hard

@hallek129, okay

That's what I thought. Breastfeeding helps you lose weight in no time. Not breastfeeding makes you gain and make hard to lose what you gain during pregnancy.

@hallek129, no...

Do you breastfeed?

I have found that I can't do it for myself. I couldn't quit smoking for myself and I couldn't start eating healthy and working out for myself either. I needed a greater reason. My last baby became my reason. Since I had him when I was 36, I realized if I don't get my shit together I might not even be around to see him graduate. I can't handle him being alone without me knowing I could've stopped it. He became my motivation and every time I start to slack I look at him and remember how much he needs me to be here for at least another 18 years. It works every time.

@jasminem, exactly you gain happiness to work out for a few days,then you just give up it's not easy for sure

@brookemmoore, exactly some people just don't understand it's like a deep hole you can't get yourself out of

I feel you! Im the exact same way. I was doing so good after my last baby but I've Gained half of my weight loss back. And I have no one to workout with or stay on track with

I know how you feel it's hard to get motivated when you feel your so far past gone.