Today has been annoying. My mother is being a pain in the ass ever since I told her that when she…

That's rough. I'm sorry

I'm sorry you're going through that. It's a shame mothers aren't always what they're supposed to be.

@therurallady its ok. Im close to just telling her don't come

@pattycakemommy i want her to be a part of my daughter's life and dont get me wrong, shes been a good mom too but she has times where she is so nasty then tries to make people feel guilty

@twinpeanut my mom can be the same way. I would tell her to back off for a while.

@therurallady im about to. My husband and i decided that if she gets nasty, we will ask her to leave our house. I don't need the extra stress

@twinpeanut you need to talk to her and she needs to understand your side. Your baby your rules, not hers. And I understand her getting pissy...every time I try to talk to my mom I'm an ungrateful bitch, she yells and cusses me, gave me a panic attack at 26 weeks pregnant. It's hard to have so many feelings but you get yelled at every time you try to have a conversation. I let my husband handle it when I can't too.

@twinpeanut You really don't meed that nonsense! Stick with it too! I know It's hard to tell off someone you love, but sometimes it's absolutely necessary

@pattycakemommy it's good your husband helps you with that! What a guy!

@pattycakemommy @therurallady and she was supposed to leave to come here at noon. Its 630pm and bc she is having a temper tantrum idk whether shes left or not. It takes the "normal person" 2.5 to 3 hours to get here from her house. I'm going to be livid if she gets here at 9pm and later. I want my baby in bed by then and no they cant mess with her after i put her to bed

@therurallady @pattycakemommy and she flipped out on me when i asked her to get her tdap

If she's late, you could just lock the door!

@therurallady she would call over and over and bang on the door. She is rude af

@twinpeanut my mom and sister got so upset and offended when I asked them to get it too! They even tried to argue. But they never got it. I need to move to where you are and our kids can be new family :) lol

@twinpeanut and her being late is her way of showing she's in control. It's all about control.

@pattycakemommy anyone else understands, this is my baby and I'm raising her how I feel is right. Too many babies are getting sick out there. She's acting like this is all about her

@pattycakemommy if she gets here late i will let her know she needs to get a hotel bc my newborn is trying to sleep

@twinpeanut I agree. People fail to realize my child is my child, yours is yours. That's it.

Wow wtf no. Like u said use it as a chance to be a good grandmother NOT a mother. This is YOUR child and YOUR chance to be a good mother and do it ur way.

@pattycakemommy @lillyb yep. And now she's being petty and not calling when she's the one coming over

3 hours of travel

Uh no she needs to call u before she comes ovr and make sure it's okay

@lillyb when she was trying to come earlier I was fine with it now its 8pm and getting late. Im putting Natalia to bed very soon and when she sleeps, we sleep. So she's gonna be SOL

I don't blame u she needs to come during normal hrs and not mess with ur guys schedules

@lillyb i spoke to her and she said shes been waiting this last 8 hours for her wife to get off work to come down 😐 and yet she couldn't call me to update me with this??

She needs to keep u updated and I'm sorry that that happened but then come another day cuz it's late

@lillyb i told her drive down tomorrow morning and she had a fit 😑 saying I HAVE to see my grand baby....ok....

What's the big deal for waiting until tom? She will have more time with baby with out messing up ur schedule. U all need ur rest especially u since ur still recovering

@lillyb she's impossible. I just told her goodnight, see her tomorrow

Good put ur foot down.