Ugh I'm feeling kinda sad. My friend (not close like we used to be) said she's stuck out in the…
Ugh I'm feeling kinda sad. My friend (not close like we used to be) said she's stuck out in the street tonight. Didn't say why but asked if she could stop by, I feel bad for not letting her but not taking any chances because I know she uses drugs. I don't want to say that's the reason why, I know she will try saying she has nothing on her. Maybe she doesn't but I won't ever know. I will not allow that stuff around me or my son. I just feel bad because she would help me when I needed help. And I don't want karma biting me in the ass. What would you do in this situation? Opinions appreciated!
Carla·
Мама дочки-младенца
If you know she uses drugs then I wouldn't let her in. It's too risky. Think of your son. Who is more important to you?
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год)
@babyking1 My son! I just feel bad ya know?
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You did the right thing!!! I wouldn't even let family in that predicament stay either . You have a child now that comes first . But I get why your sad and upset. It's just this is the choices she made and can't expect you to put that near an innocent child.
I hope your friend is ok
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год)
@pnkbuttafly234 I hope she is too. Its storming here 😞
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год)
@kitcatmeow8383 I'm sure she knows plenty of other people to ask, and she knows there is shelters.
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If it was me and I know she has a drug problem but I have no way of knowing I would get her a motel room for that night. Because my kid come first but you never know tomorrow I could be the one in need with my child.
Monica·
@marinewife10, that's what I was gonna suggest
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год)
@marinewife10 Yeah, that's what I'm worried about. But not much I can do ya know? I don't have money to get her a room. 😞
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@acesmomma In that case just pray for her but let her know you are thinking of her.
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год)
@marinewife10 I definately will.
True ·
I know how you feel my sister has asked for my help numerous times and I haven't helped her for the simple fact that she is usen Drugs hard as well and I feel bad because she let me stay at her house when I didn't have a place to stay. But I also wasn't usen drugs like she is I feel bad when she calls me crying but in reality I don't want that around me and my daughter either and if she wasn't usen drugs hella hard and not being so careless I would help her but she doesn't wanna stop... if I was you I wouldn't feel that bad because you have to think of the pros and cons she may steal from you invite some one over they may cause you all harm .", you may get your kid taken away... if she wasn't usen drugs and had her head on straight then you'd help her but she is not and you have to think about you and your child not her at the moment it's messed up but t would be more messed up if things happened because you decided to Help some one who isn't trying to help them selfs
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год)
@trynew26 It sucks but you're right, have to think of the pros and cons. I just hope she's alright and staying dry. Its rainy here and storming on and off. I know she knows a lot of other people. Hopefully one of them can help her out.
True ·
@acesmomma, yea and their are shelters like one of the other lady's mentioned she'll be fine but don't feel bad because of it your making the right choices
Savannah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Better save then sorry my baby daddy friend uses drug and he let him camp out in my daughter room at his house I went over to get something and I ended up not talking to him anymore because he rather hang out with that then sorry about his daughter safely. Point being any little thing like that could get your kids taken even if you don't use. If its in your house your no better in dcf eyes saddly
Sarah Cocco·
Мама четверых детей
Drugs are no joke. You made the right decision, in my opinion