Do any other mommies always put there babies first to the point where you let your health go down the drain? My family…

Do any other mommies always put there babies first to the point where you let your health go down the drain? My family is so proud of how much I love and care for Violet and even chose to ebf for a year straight but I've been in the hospital more than I should lately due to dehydration and stress. It's hard to take care of myself when I just worry to much about violet and want her to be content always. My family tells me Violet is now one and such a healthy happy baby and that I need to take care of myself now cause she needs me healthy too. It's just so hard to adjust. My baby will always be number one.