Oh ok yeah then still try to see if he will work with you that way when you go to court you can say you tried to let him see his child.

@embracemthrhd2, I don't want him to know I'm taking him to court

Mt ex husband did the same thing and he refused to compromise but he doesnt want to go to court either so he just doesnt see his son...

@gabsmommy have you tried talking to him about meeting up to spend time with her in public till he get his life together? Let him know how you would like to keep the parenting arrangements between you 2, so the courts dont have to get involved.

@embracemthrhd2, I thought about that and that's why I won't send her but idk if it's against the law

Ive been in that situation before and someone said to me. What type of mom would i be by letting my son go with his dad but have no clue where he is staying?? What if something happens and the police ask me questions and all i can say is I dont know???

@justusthree im glad to but it really put me n a mood that im still trying to get out of its like he stole apart of me like im not my self im working on it tho... But even after all that he dint even come see her

@trynew26, girl i couldn't even imagine 😔 so glad you got her back finally.

He seems like he's going to make things worse. Try to get some legal advice and take it from there to protect u and ur lil one

@justusthree my bad ... Yea its horrible i got real depressed after going threw all that bs to get my daughter back

@gabsmommy woooow.. Be careful what you tell him n watch what u do .. N with him recording u without your knowledge isn't right either

@trynew26, that's what I was saying. If there's no court order than I don't see why she would get in trouble for keeping her from him..

I sure as hell wouldn't give my daughter to someone like that until I was legally forced to.

Easiest way is to just go to court and get custody. He's going to have to show and he's going to have to show proof of resident job and that you are an unfit mother. Just keep all texts and everything

@justusthree no that is not true if their is no court order he can take her and shell have a hard time getting her back i just went to court for this

@dinamarie2604, @trynew26, @fasciamom, @brendamariex3, @justusthree, thank you all for the feedback and he also haven't done not 1 thing for her since we separated for 6 months now. He came to get her twice and when he came over he told me he doesn't have a stable home for her and left idk if he did that because he saw me going out. Also he says he's been recording me for two months now and he has evidence I'm an unfit mom all I do is curse him out for not trying to be their for our daughter sooooo idk