Can you into some type of trouble from keeping your child away from their father ? I refuse to let my baby stay with her dad last time I know he was homeless moving from place to place had no money now he's harassing me to take her .... he would not let me know where she will be staying. I don't trust him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Should I let my x know when labor starts
Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds harsh, but my husband stayed at the hospital during my stay when I had our son and he drove me crazy bc all he did was complain. Now he tells me (2 days before my csection) that he's going to stay and I don't want him to.
Naomi Israel ·
Мама четверых детей
Oh ok yeah then still try to see if he will work with you that way when you go to court you can say you tried to let him see his child.
Aashley ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@embracemthrhd2, I don't want him to know I'm taking him to court
Naomi Israel ·
Мама четверых детей
Mt ex husband did the same thing and he refused to compromise but he doesnt want to go to court either so he just doesnt see his son...
Naomi Israel ·
Мама четверых детей
@gabsmommy have you tried talking to him about meeting up to spend time with her in public till he get his life together? Let him know how you would like to keep the parenting arrangements between you 2, so the courts dont have to get involved.
Aashley ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@embracemthrhd2, I thought about that and that's why I won't send her but idk if it's against the law
Naomi Israel ·
Мама четверых детей
Ive been in that situation before and someone said to me. What type of mom would i be by letting my son go with his dad but have no clue where he is staying?? What if something happens and the police ask me questions and all i can say is I dont know???
True ·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
@justusthree im glad to but it really put me n a mood that im still trying to get out of its like he stole apart of me like im not my self im working on it tho... But even after all that he dint even come see her
Jordan·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@trynew26, girl i couldn't even imagine 😔 so glad you got her back finally.
Dina Marie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
He seems like he's going to make things worse. Try to get some legal advice and take it from there to protect u and ur lil one
True ·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
@justusthree my bad ... Yea its horrible i got real depressed after going threw all that bs to get my daughter back
Dina Marie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
@gabsmommy woooow.. Be careful what you tell him n watch what u do .. N with him recording u without your knowledge isn't right either
Jordan·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@trynew26, that's what I was saying. If there's no court order than I don't see why she would get in trouble for keeping her from him..
I sure as hell wouldn't give my daughter to someone like that until I was legally forced to.
Miasia·
Мама сына (1 год)
Easiest way is to just go to court and get custody. He's going to have to show and he's going to have to show proof of resident job and that you are an unfit mother. Just keep all texts and everything
True ·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
@justusthree no that is not true if their is no court order he can take her and shell have a hard time getting her back i just went to court for this
Aashley ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@dinamarie2604, @trynew26, @fasciamom, @brendamariex3, @justusthree, thank you all for the feedback and he also haven't done not 1 thing for her since we separated for 6 months now. He came to get her twice and when he came over he told me he doesn't have a stable home for her and left idk if he did that because he saw me going out. Also he says he's been recording me for two months now and he has evidence I'm an unfit mom all I do is curse him out for not trying to be their for our daughter sooooo idk
martha elisa·
Мама троих детей
Every state is different! If I were you, I'd look into getting a court order. See if they have a workshop clinic at your court, (that's what I do now), you may qualify for pro bono services if they do. I'd look into it, having official paper work will make it better for you. Good luck!
lauren·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
You don't have to do anything if nothing is stated in court...
lauren·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (28 нед.)
If you guys are married and he's the one who left the home, he technically is saying you have sole custody. Depending though on how long he's left the home.
Dina Marie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm not sure how things go since u guys are married but I hope things work out for u
True ·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
Dont let him take her because he doesnt have to bring her back then youll find your self going to court and looking for him cus youll have to serve him papers n if their is no custody agreement he has every right not to bring her back--- i just went to court for this my self i let my daughter dad pick her up for the weeked n he didn't wanna bring her back i had to go to court to get her back it took me 5 months to get her back all because neither of us had full custody n since he is the dad he dont have to bring her back... Now i have full custody n if he come get her and decided he dont wanna bring her back i can call the police n i have paper thay says i can do that... If you're feeling bad about it just go ahead and go to court now and get all this in order now so that when he does come and get her or you decide to let her go with him you don't have any problem getting her back from him
Dina Marie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Gurrrl make sure u save all those messages just in case he try to pull a fast one.. Can't leave ur child with anyone you don't trust or have a location to where he's taking ur child
Aashley ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@fasciamom, that's what he texted me
Aashley ·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm not giving you a address to nowhere I'm staying and legally I don't have to so if you wanna keep pulling this controlling card and makin up excuses to y you holding my child from me go ahead its deffenitly not gone look good for you .i don't know if you know this but you have held me from seeing my daughter you took her from me and you can go to jail for this you must have forgot we're married things are a lot different
Jordan·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I don't think so if there's no court order that she needs to go with him.