@intelligentmind2015 Thank you thank you, I'm going to give it a try next time!!

@emily526, yeah I'm sorry I didn't mean to put yell but the object of it is trying to get on his level you know like try to do something that he likes to do that you don't really like to do but try to do that and then bring up a conversation

@intelligentmind2015 Thank you so much. I don't yell so I do sit with him and I say what I need to say but I'm not getting that response to keep it going. I might try sitting with him and having him speak first maybe if he starts off we can go back and forth like that.

@emily526, see that's not a conversation that's just you yelling and saying what you want to say and he's not listening, you have to get to mood for you both are happy try to reminisce on things that you guys used to do leave the kids with somebody if you can or after they sleep you sit down you reach to him but approach him in a good manner start talking about nice things and then afterwards you keep talking about things,it leads to good convo,your approach has to be different

@intelligentmind2015 @mommy.ortiz4 I have similar issues with my husband and I wanted to ask you both how do you get to those deep conversations? I try to talk to my husband but oftentimes he doesn't really respond with anything to keep a conversation going. It's like we argue and I say what I need to say and then he doesn't really respond he just asks like nothing happened and it's a cycle.

@mommy.ortiz4, trust me I don't think it's you. It's usually they're fault and they never take accountability for their actions or part as to why we do the things we do

@mommy.ortiz4, girl then dont😭 my man acts like a child still had a lot to learn but I been with him for years,tbh I strongly suggest even if y'all need threpy or you gotta maybe stop doing a few things so he could open his eyes do it,don't move on work with him because I know you love him so go to the back for him

@intelligentmind2015, but I don't want tooooo😩😩😩😩😩😩

@mommy.ortiz4, well man let him go at least you tried you know

@intelligentmind2015, you know how many times I sit with him and have deep convos? It seems to go in one ear and right out the other 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm tired man

@mommy.ortiz4, now see what my bf he was doing the same thing yours was doing blaming me and crap then we came to a point where we really sat down ,and had a conversation I mean a deep convo,I know you feel like you have don't everything but 4 years is a long time

@intelligentmind2015, I don't know what to do anymore

TBH that's how it is with my boyfriend constant arguing about things that won't change,but I'm a firm believer in make things work with someone you have been with for a while cause no one wants to look for someone else after so long..I mean if there's any possibility of trying a different angle to make it work do it,but if your constantly trying and nothing works then I guess it's time to let it go

@logansjay, it's like I'm always the one that has to change or reunite us and so on. It's always has to be me and apparently I'm the problem here smh

I feel like that sometimes