Just realized that I haven't shared an update on my oldest in a while. 3rd shift & the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale have kicked my butt lately, sorry ladies!!
We've had some ups & downs since my last post. Joseph was busted "writing a story" with his girlfriend over Google Hangouts that was borderline sexting. After this came to light, my ex & I had a very open discussion a/b co-parenting, being on the same page on kid related things, & on how much Joseph has grown up beyond the "normal" 12 yr old.
After this discussion, the ex went back & had a few heart to hearts w/Joseph. During these, Joseph admitted to my ex that he was struggling w/thoughts of suicide, that he wants to understand his purpose in life, & that he feels like he "blends into the background of life".
That openness helped get the ex fully on board w/Joseph's counseling sessions, among other things we've already been doing at my house. By the following Monday, Joseph was scheduled for his next 3 sessions, had more rules at the ex's house, & more responsibilities at both houses.
He also still has his girlfriend, so all is well on that front. lol
My ex and his new girlfriend are about to throw me into an anxiety attack 😭
Question for moms with boys.... If you knew your son was cheating on his girlfriend and had another girl over your house would you tell your sons girlfriend or mind your business?
Had the worst day! Bumped into my ex and he held me down while his sister hit me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
Y'all sound like great parents! Glad Co parenting is going well and that your son is getting help through counseling and support from his parents. 😊