Ok all I need help.. A little background info: my boyfriend told his best friend to stop putting him…
Ok all I need help..
A little background info: my boyfriend told his best friend to stop putting him on Snapchat because apparently I get mad every time I see my boyfriend on there (which is shady by itself)
So I woke up this morning & saw that my boyfriend's best friend posted a Snapchat in my boyfriends car (no big deal, right?) so I mention it to my boyfriend like "oh what did you guys do last night" & my boyfriend said that they weren't even with each other last night. So I'm like ok.. well then how did he get in your car? I know it's his car because it's his dashboard & you can see his son's car seat in the back.. so I'm starting to get mad like a simple question turned into him lying, for what? Then we get into an argument. Then I go back to look at the Snapchat again on his friends snap & see that his friend completely deleted me on Snapchat altogether & I can't see his Snapchat stories anymore. My boyfriend insists he wasn't with him and insists the reason why he deleted me wasn't because of him, but something so little just turned into a lie. Why lie? So of course I turn it into a big deal because I don't want to be with a liar who continues to lie, even about small things. If you can lie about small things, what else can you lie about? Am I making a big deal out of nothing or do you guys think something is going on?
Trinette Owens·
Мама двоих (младенец)
It does seem a little shady to me. Not exactly sure what it is but like you said I don't understand the reason of lying
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
@towens921, that's the only reason why I'm mad.. like what did he have to lie about? Idk
Trinette Owens·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Right and I would definitely be suspicious
Deleted·
Yeah if I'd be pissed thwn it makes it look worse that his friend deleted you. After you questioned your bf about it.
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
@nitarose070793, exactly, his friend didn't have to delete me. But I have people who can still see his story but it's sad it even has to come to that. Now I'm wondering if I can even trust my bf anymore. A lie is a lie no matter how big or little
Deleted·
@baileybug I agree. Even when you try to explain it and he gets mad is odd. He seems like he's hiding something
Gee·
Men LOVE. To lie but god forbid if we lie about something small too ! It's super shady . He doesn't want you knowing about his whereabouts .. maybe his best friend is chilling with someone who is around your boyfriend and your boyfriend doesn't want you knowing .
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
That's kind of shady like why lie about something so stupid because little things are what tend to break the trust when they could be avoided
Chantelle Pape·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
He's lying. Bottom line. There's too much going on here.
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
@geovanncastaneda67, ugh I hate that he tries to keep things from me though.. like what's the point? I'd take a truth that hurts over a lie that doesn't any day
Cait Nugent ·
You caught him in a lie, so I don't think you're making a big deal out of it. Go with your gut, I have over looked so many things in the past, and kept them to myself, so good for you for questioning him and not just holding on to it. I'm not sure what to make of the whole situation, but I don't see the point in lying about NOT being with his best friend, usually people are like I WAS with them when they weren't. I'd stay vigilant, pay attention to his moods and what he says, how he says it, and ultimately pay attention to that and try to reestablish trust and if you can't find it, move on, cause there is no point in be unhappy and in a relationship without trust.
Buddhist Mama·
If he is lying that means there's a reason. I would bet money that he is doing something he knows he's not supposed to
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I agree with all the ladies. There's not reason to lie if you don't wanna hide something you know your not suppose to be doing. I don't think your over reacting I would've done the same. Now you gotta put on your detective hat on and investigate 🕵🏽♀️🕵🏽♀️🕵🏽♀️
Jordan Ann·
No youre right, if he can lie about a little thing like that, who knows what else hes up to.
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (11 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
Could it been an old pic that his buddy took a while ago and then he just found the pic and decided to post it then.. I've done that before
A J·
Maybe his friend is acting like a little biatch and trying to start shit. Could be an old video and when your man told him that BS he decided to mess with you and post it. Either way I wouldn't want my man hanging out with a little punk like that.
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
@dalesmommy, I thought that too but when you post something from a previous day or whatever it'll tell you the date the picture was taken in the corner & it said it was recent