Whats everyone belief on tying tubes??? I dont feel right doing it...feel like im slapping God in…

I believe that God is your birth control and he decides when and how many kids you have. After I got married I found this out and stopped taking birth control but after this baby I'm getting on birth control and I will never ever get my tubes tied. Never believed in it but i wouldn't want to regret it if I got older and wanted more kids. This is my personal opinion, by no means am I telling you to tie your tubes or not tie them or get in an argument with nobody lol you have to make that decision hun 😘

Well if you get your tubes tied, there is little to no chance that you will ever fertilize an egg (in my opinion is creating life)... however, with things like an iud... they don't actually prevent an egg from being fertilized they simply irritate the uterine wall, to keep the fertilized egg from implanting... which personally for me is just not an okay option... I believe it's never my place to judge others for their decisions... but personally, I could not choose an option that would cause my body to reject a fertilized egg... I'd rather choose to keep it from getting fertilized to begin with! So that's my 2 cents!

Also, for the record... I've had 2 very high risk pregnancies, both of which could have cost me my life... my husband is getting a vasectomy because, my body cannot handle another pregnancy... and We both feel like our children deserve to have their mommy around for as long as I can! I don't think that God will be upset with us for making that decision... if we lived 100 years ago, my first child and I never would have survived... but because of advances in technology, not only did we make it through that one... I was able to have a second... and made it through that one also... that one got really scary also... I'm not willing to risk it again... Technology has advanced enough to allow my husband to get fixed, so I don't have to take that risk again... and I don't feel like that's anything against God!

I'm getting mine done my body can't take another pregnancy it has nothing to do with religion im thinking about what's best for me and body

@theinkedmommy lol wowwwww......but God blessed you to carry the baby...... Some women cant have any...so thats another reason I'm not so willing to tye the tubes ... And what laws?? I know just one law...you have to be 22 or older if im right...i could be wrong

@chelli ohhh health issues yeaaaa......that i understand.... Its like if you were to die and they had to choose who to save the baby in the stomach or you the mother....they always try to save Mother first.... But i dont have any health issuses....im just tired of being pregnant and never plan on having this many...im grateful but im tired.......

@dreamermom yeahhh if i had health issuses i would have did it after the first one.....but i dont....im just tired and im grateful but dont want others thinking im ungrateful.... I rather my husband do it...like your husband is doing it instead of making you tye yours..... Why me the women have to?? If my husband did ill be happy but me im just my heart my conscious dont feel right

@beebaby see your husband is snipping...mines wont thats another issuse.... I dont feel right with tying sooo he should do it since he dont care and dont believe God will be offended or mad or whatever

@melody_momof4 yeah thats exactly what my family saying and people..... I will feel bad for doing it.... My husband said h

I should but as soon as I say he should hes like nooooo Im a man Blah blah wouldnt be manly etc ...... So im not... I think im going to do IUD and condoms lol..... Just to be safe

I don't have health issues 😂😂 im physical tired of being pregnant im not doing this no more thats why im getting my tubes tied birth control doesn't work for me your body can only take so much

@beebaby yeppp😌😌

@skyy12221 yeaaaa... Thats what im thinking exactly bc i was on the pill plus condoms plus we barely have sex....so this baby was a shock....when I say we barely have sex we barelyyyyyy.....to the point if i wasnt a faithful wife i wouldnt be surpise if my husband wanted to say the baby wasnt his...... Hes no denying the baby...im just pointing out how much we rarely do it!!!

@mberjuste5 lmao wow haha, after this past weekend I won't be surprised if me and hubby have more than 4 kids and we're only on baby 3 lol

@theinkedmommy whattttttt omgoshhg you have to have two to three and the age too omgoshhh thats unfair.....but im sure you can find a doctor willing to do it now...money talks lol .....

@skyy12221 yeaaaa...... I heard you can get pregnant while you already pregnant lol...its rare ..you too far along i think through...lol

@melody_momof4 yeah my husbands knows my feelings and hes not trying to get numb six but still unwilling to tye his balls lol..sooo i think im going to go for IUD and condoms to be extra safe.... Never heard of any one getting pregnant off of IUD.....

@mberjuste5 yes I know! It happens before 14 weeks if I recall correctly

@skyy12221 @melody_momof4 @beebaby @chelli @theinkedmommy @dreamermom thanks ladies for the input.... Im going to just do the IUD amd condoms.... I feel much better after reading yall opinions lol.... I wish man could have babies...us ladies go through too much with this popping out babies....

@melody_momof4 that 1percent needs to be change to 50percent lol..... I hear too many failed birthcontrol stories ..now you saying IUD might fail too...omgoshhh Lord help me.....he should see Im very tired with the five he gave me.... With these kids driving me crazy...

@mberjuste5 my doctor wants me to get the IUD, I was thinking nexplanon at first I was like the mini pill but I usually just stop taking them lol but I need at least a 2 year gap with either implant I would have a 3 year gap. I'm gonna talk to hubby about it tonight I'm so conflicted.

@skyy12221 what is the nexplanon?? Thats the three year one?? Yeah dont waste your time on the pill ..... I got pregnant while on the pill ...but it was a very low dosage bc i didn't want it to mess with my breastmilk like the depo shot did me years ago..... Dont get the shot either...the depo shot had me bleeding om and off alotttt for like 6months...😕😕😒

@mberjuste5 I refuse to take the shot! Lol but the nexplanon is the 3 year one in your arm.

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i am Mary from USA i want to say a big thank you to all of

the baby center members on this platform for your

tremendous support and advice towards helping me to

achieve my dream on becoming a mother fertility issues has

been my problem for the past 4years now....but am so glad

today to be able to say that i am now 6months pregnant and

am expecting my baby pretty soon.....all thanks to dr Marcus

(drmarcusherbs@gmail.com) or WhatsApp

+2349035530865 POWERFUL ROOT AND HERBS HERBAL

MEDICINE in which he sent to me after using his herbs for just

3 weeks with his following instructions.... i then fall pregnant

on the 3th weeks.... it was a dream come through indeed

words are not enough to say thank you dr Marcus have a nice

day everyone contact him today at

Drmarcusherbs@gmail.com his herbs is fast and the great

herbs also help my husband and increase his sperm count

@mberjuste5 I ended up getting the nexplanon because I got Endometritis, in infection in my uterus after giving birth and my ob refused to give me an IUD for a whole year cause she wants to make sure I'm completely healed then after a year if I still want it I can get it but I'll probably keep the nexplanon if I like it. I've had it a week today and no problems so far but its only been a week so we'll see.

@skyy12221 im getting the one they put in your arm..dec 5th hopefully my insurance covers it

@mberjuste5 yeah that's what I got the arm implant and it should

@skyy12221 i hope sooo....im tried of being pregnant i need a break

@mberjuste5 same here girl!