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Brianne
Brianne
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

I don't understand. I work with my daughter for weeks to potty train. And when it doesn't work, I figure I'll let her go…

I don't understand. I work with my daughter for weeks to potty train. And when it doesn't work, I figure I'll let her go at her own pace for a few weeks. And she goes back and forth between wanting to be on the potty every hour (with very little successes) and peeing through her diaper. I just don't understand. She is 3 years and 4 months old. She knows. She tells us AFTER peeing in her diaper or AFTER pooping. Maybe a dozen times in the past year and half or so has she successfully asked to go potty and actually peed on it. What am I doing wrong? I've tried EVERYTHING.

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del_1546187204_nerdymommyplus2

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@brianne, you could consult her doctor and bring up family history.

But bed wetting most kids do that until age 8. My 5 year old just recently stopped bed wetting

brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@ashleydunn, I'm honestly starting to wonder if she's got an issue like me and my little sister did. I wet the bed till I was 10 and my little sister had to have surgery to be able to "control" herself when going potty.

del_1546187204_nerdymommyplus2

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@santistevanmommie, has a potty training group maybe she can help?

brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@ashleydunn, no. We give her all kinds of treats for going. But I didn't think a sticker chart would make a difference.

del_1546187204_nerdymommyplus2

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@brianne, have you tried a sticker reward chart ?

brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@ashleydunn, I've stuck with it for weeks at a time and it didn't work. I stuck with it for just over a month and I was tired of everything smelling like pee.

del_1546187204_nerdymommyplus2

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@brianne, this is what worked for us. Using big girl underwear a, yes lots of messes especially those first few days. And if I asked she'd always tell me no. So instead I would say something like "I notice you haven't went to the potty in awhile, mommy needs to potty. How about you go potty too ?"

I also took her every 40 ish minutes. Eventually she started going on her own. You have to be persistent. Putting her back in diapers will cause regression

brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@tayler, we have both! An Elmo seat for the toilet that I offer for her to sit on every time she goes into the bathroom with me. I ask her if she wants to take her turn going potty like mommy did. Never wants to. And she has a little princess potty that makes little music noises when she does pee or poop in it. She gets excited the VERY few times she gets the music going on her own. But it's just not enough motivation. ): I'm at my wits end.

tayler

Tayler

Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (18 нед.)

@brianne She sounds like a stubborn one!! Do You have a potty chair or the attachment that goes onto the toliet?

brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@tayler, doesn't work. In fact she won't tell me when she pees herself in her underwear. First day we ever tried the underwear she was sitting on the couch and I checked her every 15 minutes asking if she had to pee, and she always said no. When I want to check her, she was soaked.

brianne

Brianne

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@mommysbabies, we have. But we ran out of clean towels cleaning up after her. ): so it doesn't last longer than 10 hours or so. I ask every few minutes. "Gotta go potty?" "Wanna sit on the potty?" Always no. And I even force her to sit on the potty. But when I do that she gets hysterical and crying and will cry for 30 minutes straight until I finally let her up and I swear within 60 seconds she pees on the couch or the floor. She actually was standing in our room and just spread her legs and peed like a dog or something. I was so livid cause I was already stressed from something else so I cleaned her up, put her in a diaper and had to put her down for a nap so I could cool off.

tayler

Tayler

Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (18 нед.)

When my daughter was 2 in a half I just put panties on her. She has a couple accidents but she hated when she peed in her undies it made her cry every time so she started using the potty everyday like 3 days after switching to panties!

mommysbabies

Ashley

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Have you tried putting her in big girl underwear that's what everyone has told me to do when I go to potty train she won't like being wet all the time

chelli

chelli

Мама четверых детей, беременна

You just have to keep at my kids did a lot on their potty I let them watch their shows on it while they drink from their cup they normally went right after drinking and they normally go #2 after eating

believeinbuddha

Buddhist Mama

Мама четверых детей

My oldest did the same thing when she was that age too. She didn't show any interest in potty training so we would do the on again off again thing. She started using it permanently once we stuck to it. So my advice is don't give her a break. Keep at it. And after a month or two she will be potty trained. That worked for me for my oldest. And I potty trained her sister at the same time who was a year younger

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