Do you'll set boundaries for people when they come in your house like for instance (in laws) or friends of family members.. like do you'll let them roam through the house and in the rooms freely or ?? Are your significant others ok with it?
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I try my family never comes over but his does and his nieces and newphews like to go into the rooms and I don't like that the kids rooms ok but mine no it should be off limits i close the door and they still walk in.. I told him I'm going to by one with a lock cause I don't like people in my private area when I'm not there.. they will go and get my makeup and go I. My drawers like no u might do that at ur family but this is my house also and I don't like that crap.. I don't even like kids getting into the fridge and my cabinets I think that's rude like I didn't teach my kids to do that.. but oh no they come and look threw my cabinets and eat all my chips and grab soda after soda and when they come it's like seven of them at a time.. two weeks ago I spend about 60 just to get everything back of what they ate my chips and all sodas so I started to get my sodas and put them in my room maybe that will help but I doubt it.. sucks cause he's got different ways then me m.
Girl this is the first time we've had company ever really! Everything is just going so wrong. I already know my mom is not going to feel comfortable coming back here . She's in our bed now watching tv and eating chips smh
No one is allowed to roam my house, expect my living room, guest bathroom and outside if we're cooking.
@niabird, my family in town also I had to have the same conversation with them. My husband works overnight so when he is here they were tryna walk in my room & stuff. They understand now.
@mumkipchumba, yeaaahhh, just making sure and getting a outside outlook on things you know before I say something to everyone and look like a total bitch in front of my family
@niabird, well that's understandable, that's y'all personal space if he doesn't want them in there then they shouldn't be there.
@momofdeuce, I have family for the weekend and everyone is like in the bed room and in our bed, making pallets on the floor in our room and my SO is looking crazy like he's about to explode 🤦🏽♀️
@mumkipchumba, I'm asking because my mother and family is staying for the weekend and my SO keeps giving everyone the side eye cause they are in our room making pallets and my mom is in our bed 🤦🏽♀️ I'm just trying to keep peace you know 😂
Only if they are staying the night. My room is always off limits no matter what. Don't come in my room unless I tell you to & my door is closed for a reason knock don't just walk in. When they visit they usually ask can I got to the restroom I'm like sure.
Nope they stay in the living room unless invited else where. The only other place allowed is the bathroom. Why should they roam?
@niabird, oh no she needs to know as a adult we got our personal space especially if u got a man.. it will be different if u were alone .. but that's his space and his area and I'm sure he feels weird already with having them there and roam the whole house and the room that's his space and his area he can go and hide in or just relax in.. I would tell them to stay in kitchen or living room n u go out there with them.. because then he will feel like u put him a step down and didn't respect him in such a way his personal space