so I fucked up again an went to jail Tuesday an it's so much going on. Im not even really suppose to…
so I fucked up again an went to jail Tuesday an it's so much going on. Im not even really suppose to b around my baby as much as I have been. But she's been the only thing keepin me together her dad dosent really wana talk to me right now an said he didn't wana b wit me but he sending mixed signals I could possibly go bk to jail. I got druck an got stupid. This guilt is super bad I just really need some encouraging words I'm only 24 an trying to fond that balance there's no more room for fuck ups if I do I'm sure I'll go to jail an stay there for awhile an lose everything lik I almost did. Plz help ladies an b honest 😔😔😔
Wvgirl·
You said be honest so here it goes. Being only 24 isn't an excuse, when i was 18 or 19 i may have got drunk and been stupid but now I'm 25 and don't even drink. You need to grow up and show the people you love the most, that you do love them and that you can stop with the nonsense and be who you need to be for them. I don't know the criminal charges you're facing so idk what you could be looking at there but if you don't want to do the time then don't do the crime. If you do have to do some more time, just suck it up and get through it and get it done and over with and move on from it. That's all you can do.
tete w·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
I don't think it's a alcohol problem maybe it's the type of alcohol bcuz I don't get lik that all the time an I'm soft spoken so I think wen I drink at times I explode from thinkin of My stress I started off cool druck an all but my bd said somethin about the baby wakin up an I lost it. My mom is a druck an it hurts that I feel lik it's lookin lik I'm starting on her path but y dose everyone have to make me feel even worse this is killin me in side as it is
tete w·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)
@danielswifey An I agree 😔
Tierra Wimes·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (9 нед.)
No one can tell u what to do or how to change until u are really ready to make those changes everyone makes mistakes as young adults but it's up to u to decide what kind of life you want to have for your children and yourself
Jamie·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (11 нед.)
@teetw0608, alcohol is alcohol. Period... My suggestion, stop drinking. Nothing wonderful had ever come from being intoxicated. It's not the type, it's the way it affects your chemicals in your brain. Check out your local AA chapter 👍
Carter'sMom·
It comes down to this " do you want your child to say : my mom is a drunk so here I go too"? If you do don't stop drinking and watch the cycle continue until your numb to it. If you don't, don't drink at all, anything with alcohol! Talk to your oldest child let them know he/she is worth the change; you might have to go for a while but you'll come back better. As for your SO go with his what he says and what he acts on the most. Good luck. It's up to you to break the cycle momma.
Wvgirl·
@teetw0608 i wish you luck i really do, but it's time you grow up and stop drinking and get yourself together for your kids.