My SO and I have had our children's names picked out since we started dating almost 13 years ago. Our first son would be named after him and, he is. Our first daughter after my mother. I'm due with her In September. He is now saying he doesn't want to give her that name. Him and my mother have never really gotten along and my relationship with her has been very rocky. She's a narcissist who can't take responsibility for her life. I however love her very much and am grateful for her struggles. Anyway it's now becoming an issue. My question is... should I leave her name as is or should I consider his feelings and change it? This would hurt my mothers feelings very much.