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For as long as I could remember my mom has always body shamed herself. To being on diets to "oh I can't eat that" or…

For as long as I could remember my mom has always body shamed herself. To being on diets to "oh I can't eat that" or "I'm just gonna eat salad today" and she still fucking does it to this day! It makes me so mad because, because of her I have dealt with eating disorders and hating my body my whole life! I remember being like 5 only eating salad for a whole day because I thought it would make me lose weight. I was fucking 5!!! I remember starving myself for the first time....I was in fucking FOURTH grade! It took me having a child to really start loving my body. It took me 9 months to make my child and I pray to god she never feels the way that I once did about her own body that my body created! I will do everything in my power to make her believe that she is Perfect in every way! I love my mother with all my heart but I'll be damned her ways ruins that 😒😒

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livebreatheanna

Anna Hernandez

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You can't even blame your mom.. obviously, she has her own issues.

mothernaturexx4

Annysa

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@livebreatheanna, yeah but if she didn't throw it out there I wouldn't be the way I was..I would never say how much I thought I was fat or hated myself in front of a child or even my own especially seeing that mental illnesses are hereditary.

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