Somebody please help me !! So I'm 40 weeks and I'm trying for a vbac and I went to my Dr yesterday and my cervix dropped all the way but the problem is that I'm not dialated and I guess from what she says I can't go past 40 weeks due to the vbac..so my problem is that if I don't dialate by Thursday when I go and see her she is making me come in Friday to I guess use the forceps to encourage some dialtion and following I guess the folly balloon ..I think I'm saying it right ..all I know is I am freaking out and I feel like I have no control over my body ... anyone been through this before that can help ease my mind I'd really appreciate it 😭
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I'm going to do a little research because this "not going past 40 weeks" thing just sounds like your doctors "rules". Your due date can be two weeks off and I see NO reason why you wanting a vbac would change the way your body works ! If I were you I'd do a little research, and if I felt comfortable I would not go in for the appointment. That's just me though. And like I said, I have NOT done research in that way. The group above is our vbac group and the ladies there might be able to help you as well !!!
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I'm sorry that I just saw this I didn't see my alert ..I agree totally that's why I reached out because it just doesn't feel right at all and it's upsetting and tomorrow is my due date and no signs at all and I don't care if I go another 2 weeks my Drs making it seem like I have no choice but to have the baby this week's only till Friday. I really appreciate you writing me truly means alot and I will definitely go in the vbac chat to see if anyone can also help thank you again!!