So... if you found out that your bf/fiance/husband was going on porn sites would you count that as…

Watching porn and flirting are different though... id say no

No, in my relationship we both watch porn. It depends on what boundaries you guys have set though. Some people don't want their significant other watching it.

I wouldn't count it as cheating . but I would want to know the Reason why? I know my husband occasionally watches porn when he feels sexually disconnected from me.

To me cheating is forming a relationship with someone else, being intimate, sneaking around, kissing and of course sex.

He's lusting after other women and the Lord says if you look at another person with lust then you have committed adultery in your heart with that person, not every one believes in what the bible says but I do and Id say it was cheating within your heart like God says.

@amberjacq so you count watching porn is cheating?

@kai_knouse Yes, not many people now days understand that but I guess that's only because they focus more on what the world says is right and not what God says is right.

@amberjacq I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks it's cheating

@kai_knouse Im glad too, you're never alone in this world when you have God and people who truly believe in the word of God ❤

All your post are about basically the same thing you obviously very unhappy in your relationship, you an only you will make a dissicion to stay or leave. Be brave, stay strong an most importantly know your worth so much.

@wafflez so What? It was a question.. don't like it then don't comment

It's depends if its like live porn and they are talking to each other kind of thing. That I would consider cheating

@kai_knouse 😂 wow you took it the wrong way but okay

@amberjacq I'm with her on this one.

@rikki.ferguson with me ?

@kai_knouse It's cheating, love.

@rikki.ferguson oh okay. I don't understand how some people think it's not.. I mean hes watching a naked women who isn't you play with them shelfs to feel good... and it shouldn't be like that.

@kai_knouse exactly! Just another way the world is going to crap.

I think it's a form of cheating I believe I'm the only person to be able to get him off . And my husband in beginning of our relationship got caught watching porn and I was very hurt like he did u r looking at another women in sexual ways and fantasizing and getting off on it. That's wrong when he found out how upset it made me he stopped and has since. But some women don't mind but alot think it's cheating don't think ur alone