I get so annoyed with my boyfriend. He works, but it's been under 40 hours a week lately and he…
I get so annoyed with my boyfriend. He works, but it's been under 40 hours a week lately and he doesn't help me with Violet, at all. I take care of her during the day when he's at work and have to do it during the night so he can sleep for work. He can't even hold her for 15 minutes without asking me to take her cause she gets fussy with him. Like maybe if you held her more often she'd be used to you. He loves her, no doubt, but he won't help me with her. I don't know if it's because he wasn't ready to be a dad or if it's because he has no experience with babies and is nervous around her, but man he needs to do something to start helping me out
💕Vivian Aide Gonzalez 💕·
I think he's still getting the hang of it .. my husband was the same way but he use to tell me that he was scared to hold him or change a diaper or dress him .. he's way better now . Just give him some time :) it gets better with time trust me!
Karen·
Мама дочки (1 год)
My boyfriend was the same way when he went back to work and said that he was afraid to do something wrong. But like @vivian_loves_abisai, said, it gets better
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
My hubby was like that with our last child but as she gotten older the more he would interact with her. I didn't understand it at first till he finally told me after I asked he said it was bc she was too small but he did hold her at times when he confident n wanted to bond with her like during a football game. I took plenty of pic to catch those moments. Now she about to be 2 yrs old n they play like kids n he interacting with her when he off from work like there is no tomorrow. Just give it time as she grows they will have a closer bond n at times you will feel left out its normal
Mommy Of 2 Beautiful Boys·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Yeah i know the feeling my SO sister in law said that i should have known what i was getting into and as long as my son was in diapers i would be doing all of the parenting its so bad that i have to ask him to even change his sons diaper and now we are potty training no help with that either the joys of being a mom
Alice Lin·
Мама дочки-младенца
My husband is the same but it's simply due to. babies are boring and it is so much repetition and his mind is dying. On top of how M cried everytime I was gone for over 5 minutes in the beginning. Felt/feels like a single parent sometimes!
Good luck.
Mommy Of 2 Beautiful Boys·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@jellyoldfellow yeah it does feel like we are single parents sometimes