So I'm planning my own baby shower, since I want to keep it simple and it's just easier since I…

So I'm planning my own baby shower, since I want to keep it simple and it's just easier since I manage events for a living. My Bestfriend has offered to help, but is constantly telling me how busy she is and for me to tell her what I need done. When I try to get a hold of her, she is unresponsive... so why should I sit around and wait!? If you want to pitch in and help then just tell me what you want to do.. and just DO IT. Ugh I don't know why but it could be the raging hormones but it's just erks me