Ladies can you help me answer this question honestly and truthfully? Don't bash cause I'm just…
Ladies can you help me answer this question honestly and truthfully? Don't bash cause I'm just trying to figure out how to deal. I'm use to confiding in my husband about everything that goes on especially bills. Now that we're not together and I keep telling him be smart about what he's doing, I feel like I keep talking to him about what's going on with me and my mom here. Who can I confide in with everything I have ? I mean I know my mom is there but I really want my husband and then again I don't. I'm in a bind because I don't want to talk to him about like things going on with my family, or stress I may have or things I need to get done. I'm going nuts right now 😔
Simone·
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Have you tried seeking counseling?
Jaymie M·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@simmiebaby, like couples counseling or ?
Leslie·
Why don't you want to talk to your husband about your problems? Are you guys separated or anything? I'm asking because, he's your husband and to me my husband is my best friend, we get each other through everything, He always has a way of making me feel better and less stressed. If you go to anyone else to confide in... they have a tendency to tell you what you want to hear, or they give you advice that even themselves wouldn't follow.
Jaymie M·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@starliightt, I'm separated at the moment. He was my best friend but when it came down to me and this pregnancy, he shut me out and wasn't acting like I could go to him. He always brushed me off, told me the most simple answers like I had to figure it out on my own. And we're slowly becoming friends again but it's like with how I feel and my emotions, I prefer to take my own lash rather than someone else. It's difficult right now with me honking straight and I still can't cause I feel like when next week comes and Lily is here, I'm gonna loose my mind.
Simone·
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Personal counseling. @babylove11416
Leslie·
@babylove11416, have you told him he's made you feel this way? How it hurts when he just brushes you off and doesn't try at all to comfort you? If you haven't told him this, you should tell him... communication is VERY important, you should never ever feel as if you can't go to your husband to confide in, I'd say couples counseling but very seldom do men agree to this.
Leslie·
I don't think that there is anything wrong with you in wanting to confide in him etc. it is very natural to want to do so, that's your husband and your friend.
Buddhist Mama·
I would get a counselor. If you're not together you need to find someone else to confide in