It's been a while and I need to vent...
My hubby has been downing on me on getting a job. Finally he's agreed to let me get my old job back while he's Mr. Mom. Before he agreed, he was being a total jackass. He told me off when I wanted to discuss, calmly, about our issues to better our relationship and he made it sound like I was the problem. When he encouraged me on looking for land and mobile home of my choosing so we can save up for it, he then started saying I'm going to far and not thinking about his credit. When I try talking to him about a job he was supportive on me looking but when I got a lead he said his $8.50/hr job is superior than my $10/hr job and that I should stay home. Thing is, when it comes to saving up I'm more responsible than he is. He hasn't saved anything for shit. I saved $20 of my allowance he gave me two months ago in case my daughter ran out of formula and I recently used it so she can eat. He spends it willy nilly. It pisses me off. I can pay the bills far better than he can, I can provide more responsibly than he while doing the mom role as well as the cook and maid of the damn household. I can be superior than he. Considering that he's been nothing but a man child lately especially with finding another job, helping me to get my license, making sure we have WIC and foodstamps which he failed to give me the information so we can be able to provide for us and for our daughter! I swear I honestly feel like I'm doing it all on my own and if it's like that then I'm going to act like it is. I am going to find out if I'm getting my old job back if I am then I'm going to make him look like he's my wife and see how he like it. Because I sure as hell don't appreciate how he is treating our situation
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Rant
My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daugh...
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
I feel like both of you feel unloved and disrespected at the moment and that's why you are fighting. I just went through this with my hubby. Because I felt like he didn't appreciate me being a stay at home mom and he was lashing out and treating me like that because he thought I didn't appreciate or respect how hard he works.. Its a really hard balance When someone is staying at home full time.