Okay, so I'm not wanting a baby anytime here soon.. but when my SO and I talk about having another one , he is totally against it .. (he already has an 11year old daughter of his own) . He says 2 for him is enough, even though she stays with her mom, and by the time I want another little one she'll be just about grown. Anyways, I'm scared that if and when that time comes he'll be so mad and not handle it very well... Anyone else in my shoes ?
Yah I want one more. And my husband said no. He has an 9 year old son from someone else. And I have a 4 year old from someone else. So I really wanted one of our own.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Rant
My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Its almost 11. Put my son to bed at 9:20 and he has bee. Down here 5 times already i am about to loose it. And when he is upstairs i hear walking around and no one else isnup there but for my daughter who is sleeping. Im sooooo close. I havent had any time to myself at all. Im sore as hell and just want 30 minutes!! Butnnow im about to go to sleep and i just know its going be about 10 more times my son comes to me of some made up injury or how hes thirsty. I might not have any hair by tomorrow m...
Planning on another baby...?
So for my first time moms when do you plan on having your second child?
I still want 1 more my SO has a 19 yr old a 14 yr old he said we would discuss it later but doesn't want me to wait till our son is in school full time before we have another one lol i am the one that wants to wait because one in diapers is enough