Counseling! If you guys want to make it work!

Probably by not letting them do whatever they want and then still letting them coming over your house 5 seconds ago and then asking that right after when u already know the answer . Everyone's gonna keep giving you the same answer lol. So pointless. Stop being a weakling and do it or don't at all and chill. U have no time left for this . Do u care about her enough to drop him, heal, & focus to be in a healthy spot for y'all or not 🤷🏽‍♀️

It became super easy when my son was born, because he couldn't do the simplest shit for my child and he acted like he was 5. Take time and once that baby is born you won't even think about him anymore

But yes, it does take time, so you have to be patient...

Cut them out of your life as much as possible and start creating routines to get out of the habit of being with/around them. That's what I did.

Time, you just have to give it time.

Message me if you need someone! I went through the same thing!

Hardest thing in life