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long post So I am 110% against withholding a child from their parent for any reason whatsoever. BUT, I am…

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So I am 110% against withholding a child from their parent for any reason whatsoever. BUT, I am officially fed up.

This is the second time my son's father has gotten his other son on days that aren't his designated weekend and hasn't bothered to ask if he could even see Noah. He hasn't given me any money, diaper, milk, or anything in 3 months. And mind you, he missed his last weekend with Noah. So if I wouldn't have invited him to his doctor's appointment last week, which he came to, it would be almost a month until he would've seen him again.

We don't have anything set in the courts, but I'm thinking it's time to do something. I just hate the thought of "forcing" him to be a parent and my child going over there and feeling unloved or left out. Because I know he goes and does things with his other son, even when he has both, and leaves Noah with his grandma.

@beebaby I pretty much am at my last resort. He tells me all the time that the reason he pays his other baby's mom is because he HAS to through the court system. He hasn't given me anything in about 3 months. And the last time he gave me anything, it was a pack of diapers and $40. I mean clearly we're perfectly fine right now, I'm handling it but eventually I would like to move out of my parents house, and right now that's not even an option because I have no help.

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I would involve the court as a last resort

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