I have not been able to stop the swaddle. I have done one arm out for two weeks. He sleeps fine. Any night I try both arms. He brings his hands to his face and knocks his binky out. Or scratches himself. And wakes up. Several times. Today he rolled back to front for the first time so I need to find a trick to get my sleep and sanity back. A friend lent me the Merlin sleep suit and he didn't like that he couldn't touch his face so I am SOL. I am slowly going crazy with no sleep. It makes me feel like such a bad mom when I'm sleep deprived and cranky and short on patience. I just want this phase passed 😕
@luceromommy, there are so many ideas I had no idea. I'll try anything at this point
Theres some mittens that are kind of tighter and aren't easy to take off
My son is the same way
He hates to be swaddled and he scratched himself so I used some mittens.
Also I found myself co sleeping he definitely started sleeping more with me than in his pack n play. Or give him a bath like at 7 or so then feed him .. it's tough girl I'm still at that phase 😪😪😪
@mamabeartaryn, might want to try these. Hopefully one works ссылка
@nomaci, I haven't tried the mittens because he gets them off during the day. Wasn't sure if that's a hazard at night. I have tried to see if he will gonna back asleep on his own. Sometimes he will. Sometimes he screams til I do something. I have a little hippo that plays music or nature sounds. Also a hit or miss. Anytime something works it seems to work for days then suddenly it doesn't. 😕
Can you still get those mittens to fit his hands, so he won't scratch? I can't think of anything for the binky. Also, when he wakes, have you tried to see if he can go back to sleep on his own? Maybe try a noise machine to help keep him from startling.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
So hubby played a nasty April fool's joke on me. He acted like baby was in the carseat and dropped it. today I finally got him back . He was laying in bed watching a video and I was "still sleeping" I started acting like I was having a seizure his face was priceless. I have no idea how we are still together after all the cruel things we do to each other 😂

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Am I the only weird one?
I HATE my husband touching my stomach! Every time he tries, I move his hand away. It’s like a quick reaction. He says I do it in my sleep too when he tries to cuddle with me. I don’t like my stomach and how squishy it is. He practically begged me the other day to let him touch my tummy and how much he loves and appreciates my body.
😣😣😣 I just can’t!
@viiviian.aiide, it is so tough. There are times he wakes up enough that I bring him to bed n he sleeps fine. But I really want to avoid the habit. I'll have to check mittens n fine tighter ones hoping that will help