My marriage is over i cant do this anymore. My husband is the most sweet loveable kind generous loving man i know. But on the oyher hand he is the meanest dirtiest most selfish anf self pitying man i know next to my step dad. Coinciencidently they birthdays are 1 week apart. Im tired of the every day arguing that he starts. And the once in a blue moon good loving. Im tired of being the bad guy. Im still young and childless i feel like tunning away from everybody my husband, my momma, my sibilings, everybody. And just starting over.