I always get nervous to and think something will happen but he is always fine. I haven't been away from him that much. I trust my family with him but I just know with me I know exactly what he needs and wants. Get a break though.

Yeah

@beebaby he fights sleep a lot so sometimes he just cry's loudly lol for what seems like a long time if he doesn't go down-to-earth a nap right when he starts getting tired. Ive seen her get a bit frustrated with him before just visibly with her facial expressions and speaking with him sternly (which only makes things worse) I'm hoping she'll do a bit better now but every time I've left him with her he cry's a lot. He's a bit older now so I'm trying it out again

@jaz. Why would she do that

@beebaby I do for the most part and I have. I think I just have some trust issues with everyone when it involves Finn, I'm mostly worried about her getting frustrated with him when he cry's

I understand. If you trust her then relax a bit. Tell her your wishes and hope she follows through.

@beebaby you're very right. I'm mostly nervous because I'm a first time mom and personally have a difficult time letting others interfere, it just makes me so nervous that something bad will happen and I won't be there. I'm trying my best to losen the reign a bit.

If she takes care of your child correctly then please take advantage coming from a person who has 3 children and her kids have 6 grandparents and I they have never kept them. It is a blessing. Going on 6 years and never once have my kids slept outside my home