Leaving Finn with the mil for the first time all day, I'm so nervous but she has been wanting to…

If she takes care of your child correctly then please take advantage coming from a person who has 3 children and her kids have 6 grandparents and I they have never kept them. It is a blessing. Going on 6 years and never once have my kids slept outside my home

@beebaby you're very right. I'm mostly nervous because I'm a first time mom and personally have a difficult time letting others interfere, it just makes me so nervous that something bad will happen and I won't be there. I'm trying my best to losen the reign a bit.

I understand. If you trust her then relax a bit. Tell her your wishes and hope she follows through.

@beebaby I do for the most part and I have. I think I just have some trust issues with everyone when it involves Finn, I'm mostly worried about her getting frustrated with him when he cry's

@jaz. Why would she do that

@beebaby he fights sleep a lot so sometimes he just cry's loudly lol for what seems like a long time if he doesn't go down-to-earth a nap right when he starts getting tired. Ive seen her get a bit frustrated with him before just visibly with her facial expressions and speaking with him sternly (which only makes things worse) I'm hoping she'll do a bit better now but every time I've left him with her he cry's a lot. He's a bit older now so I'm trying it out again

Yeah

I always get nervous to and think something will happen but he is always fine. I haven't been away from him that much. I trust my family with him but I just know with me I know exactly what he needs and wants. Get a break though.