Quick rant:: so i just got done looking at wedding dresses....im TERRIFIED. Me and my fiance are supposed to get married…
Quick rant:: so i just got done looking at wedding dresses....im TERRIFIED. Me and my fiance are supposed to get married in December and we fight and get emotional abusive (he calls me the abuser whatever) we've had our ups n downs thats for sure. Hes ok?? With the kids but today alone i must have thought "y are we togeather anymore" and "i guess this is the best ive got in life " at least 50 plus times. I love him but..... And it doesnt help my mom raised me fuck marriage fuck relationships. She mairred at late 30's and my sister can consider him a dad. Ive never had that benifit. Im terrified of marriage. Like im not girly at all but this lil barbie section in my head thinks marriage and the picket white fence utopia that most girls want. At like 12. But hey idk. . im so lost in my life its not even funny. My mom and fiance are right i run away a lot. But when does happiness meet in the middle with rational reality and i can just let everything flow?
Queen Bitch·
You guys should read this article http://www.jaysongaddis.com/10-agreements-before-you-get-into-an-argument-with-your-partner/ and you should try to read the five love languages and love and respect before you get married. Sit down and talk about what you guys want for your future and make plans as a couple. Don't settle, make it your best. Don't marry someone you can't see spending your whole life with.
alexandria·
Мама дочки (1 год)
If it's questionable I would either see a counselor or just end it for a while and see how you feel then (take a week off, break maybe it will help clear your head and you can figure out if that is what y'all want) but definitely bring it up to him he might feel the same way
Steph·
Don't get married if your heart is not into it. Like the other ladies said, seek some counseling beside you get married so you can both decide if it's the right choice.
Naomi Israel ·
Yes do counseling ive been married before it is work. If i ever get married again i will definitely have counseling.
Keora Willis·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
Wow. Talk to your fiance about how you feel and maybe consider counseling before getting married. Trust me you don't want to get married and have those thoughts and feelings because it not going to be pretty I will admit that but if you're both meant for each other it will work out in the long run just don't run away. Communicate and be honest.
Kara·
Мама дочки (6 лет)
Emotionally abusive can be just as bad( if not worse) than physical. Maybe you should do pre-martial counseling??