Quick rant:: so i just got done looking at wedding dresses....im TERRIFIED. Me and my fiance are supposed to get married in December and we fight and get emotional abusive (he calls me the abuser whatever) we've had our ups n downs thats for sure. Hes ok?? With the kids but today alone i must have thought "y are we togeather anymore" and "i guess this is the best ive got in life " at least 50 plus times. I love him but..... And it doesnt help my mom raised me fuck marriage fuck relationships. She mairred at late 30's and my sister can consider him a dad. Ive never had that benifit. Im terrified of marriage. Like im not girly at all but this lil barbie section in my head thinks marriage and the picket white fence utopia that most girls want. At like 12. But hey idk. . im so lost in my life its not even funny. My mom and fiance are right i run away a lot. But when does happiness meet in the middle with rational reality and i can just let everything flow?
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If it's questionable I would either see a counselor or just end it for a while and see how you feel then (take a week off, break maybe it will help clear your head and you can figure out if that is what y'all want) but definitely bring it up to him he might feel the same way
Don't get married if your heart is not into it. Like the other ladies said, seek some counseling beside you get married so you can both decide if it's the right choice.
Yes do counseling ive been married before it is work. If i ever get married again i will definitely have counseling.
Wow. Talk to your fiance about how you feel and maybe consider counseling before getting married. Trust me you don't want to get married and have those thoughts and feelings because it not going to be pretty I will admit that but if you're both meant for each other it will work out in the long run just don't run away. Communicate and be honest.
Emotionally abusive can be just as bad( if not worse) than physical. Maybe you should do pre-martial counseling??
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Not having a mom right now really fucking sucks. My birth mom is a POS and I refuse to let her be a part of my life. And my step mom is in my life daily but she's such a bitch and favors her sons and their wives over me so she's basically dead to me too! So annoyed I could cry for days. Fucking hormones! 😢
Im not gonna lie im terrified of this coronovirus... not for me but for my little boy.
We seem to catch all the coughs and colds going and its terrifying me how quickly the mortality rate is rising.
I dont want to shut us away but are playgroups and soft plays a big nono at the minute?
I Have Too Peeeeee Soooooooooo Bad. But I'm Trying To Hold It For My Doctor Appt in 12Mins. Fuck My Life. 😞😒😦😩
You guys should read this article ссылка and you should try to read the five love languages and love and respect before you get married. Sit down and talk about what you guys want for your future and make plans as a couple. Don't settle, make it your best. Don't marry someone you can't see spending your whole life with.