Ok ladies I need you'll help my husband bout over $100 dollars of tickets an yes off 1 a $30 ticket won 10,000 so I ask him what he gonna do with it he say buy him a truck an pay off his fines like wtf we married u better think about buying a house .... so then I go to find it he hinds it like are u freaking kidding me I'm so upset I wanna tear this dame house upside down what am I supposed to do ladies he think about himself when we have baby boy on the way an been trying to move for months now ughhh I'm ready to just up an walk away and tell him to enjoy his life because I can't deal with a person that always thinks of himself it's really sucks my eyes is about to pop out like we're the dame love😭😩
Yeah I would make it clear to him that if he is going to be selfish about things that I can be selfish too all on my own and that he better make a choice between a pretty new truck and his damn family.
@domsmama96, congratulations to him I am coming off to him all side ways why in hell u hiding it he see a win an stop scratching when he still more of a win after the whole ticket is scratched of an not even that the truck he have now I helped him get an other cars he had an sold so yeah I'm feeling some type of way but my main problem is why would u hide a ticket from me really u don't trust me I told him he can have all or that an 2000 I just gave him yesterday for a down down payment on his truck an then when his done fucking off all the money to get the divorce paper I'm not gonna be with someone that selfish an thinks about they self an hide stuff from me can't communicate an don't love me I'm not an refuse to
First off congratulations on the big win lol. Second off, you really need to sit down and talk to him. Men are stupid , he wants a brand new toy, but he's not thinking straight. Don't come off attacking him, just make it clear using the money as a down payment on something rather than a truck is the better decision to make as a family. It's not just about him now.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does your SO ever notice?!?
Does your SO/DH notice when u do things around the house?!?! I ask because I dropped the kids off at school this am then spent about 3 of my 4 free hours cleaning the entire downstairs. Living room, dining room, powder room and kitchen. Like scrubbed counters, toilets moved couches vacuumed and mopped everything. My house was sparkling clean when he got home and didn't even notice!!! Like wtf I just spent hours cleaning u would think he would at least notice but no w...
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
@babyboy1117, when we talk it turn into a argument I never get to say what I want without him disagreeing....whatever happened happens