Idk what to do my husband gets mad at me for not asking for help with late night feedings and tells me I need to ask for help because we Both made our son but then I ask for help and he gets mad because I have to wake him up so no matter what I do he gets mad at me and I had to up the dose on my antidepressants because I'm starting to get into some ppd this should be a happy time for our family but no instead I'm having pain and panic attacks constantly
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Please help!
My doctor is trying to induce me before 40 weeks because she's going to be off on my due date and says my placenta is starting to look old. How do I get labor started?? I don't want to be induced for no reason and I'm thinking I won't have a choice. Please help. What do I do to get things going?
I am so sorry girl! :( my S/O says the same thing to me about asking for help with our children but when I need help and ask he either isn't home (At work or out with friends) or he is home and complains. Sometimes I don't like asking him for help because I want to think I can do everything by myself but in all reality I do need help, and so do you! Maybe try to plan a 'family meeting' and discuss all of your problems. Write everything down that you feel ( like little things he could be doing for you) to make things a lil easier on you! Or maybe even write down a schedule for yourself and the babies so that you can make sure you have some time for yourself too!