Rant...
I always forget how TERRIBLY ANNOYING errand shopping is with my SO 😒 I usually go alone, but today he seemed to be in the mood to go with. So I make him food so he doesn't get cranky before we go. I am all ready to go and wait for 1.5 HOURS for him to finish tidying stuff up he all of a sudden decided to do. Then not even 5 min into the drive to the store, he already starts cussing and getting mad at construction and stating how he hates doing errands. He waits in the car for me to be done (this makes me feel rushed). Then I get done and find out I need to WAIT cuz he decided to go to the post office. Then drives home all pissed off and fast from being in a bad mood going through parking lots and just driving up the hill in general. And gets snappy saying why did I bother him to go do this stuff when we can wait the next day....
It's already been three days since I wanted to get this done! Baby will be here any week/day and I need the house stocked knowing damn well it will be impossible to do errands if he has to do them 😒 this is also why we barely have shite for baby besides clothes and swaddles. He doesn't understand that I want stuff stocked, ready and done. His excuse is that there is stuff to get done at home more than buying "things" like yard work and what ever else random house projects.
Just FRUSTRATED right now and needed to rant...sorry ladies and thank you.
@deafmama16 sadly I can't just go do it when ever cuz I'm a homemaker and he is the moneymaker. He doesn't deprive me of anything, but just procrastinates HARD. We (most likely me) are supposed to do baby shopping sometime next week. Fingers crossed!
@aud-ball does his buddies have kids cuz it really sound like they don't. Ugh I just do it all on my own even if I have to order it online. Fuck the yardwork and projects it will still be there even when the baby arrives. Ugh this urk me
@deafmama16 I know right smh 😡 urgh...he was also convinced by some of his buddies that we don't need to buy baby stuff until RIGHT BEFORE...like dude...baby comes when he wants to come. We can't just buy a car seat the day of or go buy things after he comes. His mom even tried explaining that to him, but he is SOO hard headed.
@aud-ball hopefully so!!!