I'm relatively new to this site, however I was just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. I've…
I'm relatively new to this site, however I was just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. I've got 2 daughters and my partner my.oldest is two and my youngest is 16 weeks. We lost our house when 2 weeks after my last daughter was born so we've had to move in with my parents while we save for a new place. But since then I've just not felt right, feel like I've failed as a parent, my partner feels the same as he's the one that's providing for us. But we argue a lot now and I'm just so mean all the time, most of the time I'm the one who starts the arguments just because I'm being bitchy or whatever but I can see myself getting meaner and I just can't stop. I'm having a terrible time at the minute, I hate being where we are and I hate feeling down all the time. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do. There is a bigger story to all of this however I am aware that I've already wrote a lot
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Hi Hayley sorry to hear your going through such a stressful time. Your not a failure neither is your partner these things happen and is easy to take it out on the people closest to you. You need to stick together as a team for eachother and your girls, it sounds like you are not seeing any light at the end of this but it is there this won't last forever, are you holding a grudge subcontiosly against your partner as you feel it's his fault? Have you both spoken about how to fix this problem and both your feelings? People may suggest talking to your gp about depression however if you didn't feel like this before the situation occured then I think you will feel slot happier fixing the root of the problem. Are you able to go out daily even if it's a walk to the local shops, air does good! If you want to talk further feel free to inbox me privately! P.s this won't last forever! You can get through this xxx
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@west94 we've spoken until we literally can't speak anymore, he feels as though it's his fault and I have never blamed him, what happened with our house was absolutely out of his hands there's just so much going on would it be okay to message you? X
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@hayleyhunter265 yeah sure I'll look out for your message xxx