It hurts me so much to know that im going to be experiencing my pregnancy alone and raising my child on my own knowing that my baby father(Boyfriend) doesn't want to get his life together for the sake of our unborn.....Im so sick of crying about....I guess i have to prepare mysef to become a single mom.
Sucks to hear this @__pinkkmistt
But I'm hoping he comes around
I was in this same situation and the best came out of it
My daughter will have a mother and a father even if we're not together
Sometimes it takes the baby to be born for a man to step up, but you never forget the feeling of abandonment when they finally come around.. Unfortunately for my daughter, her dad never did come around. I use to be so upset and cry about how she would feel, and her looking just like him made it worse because I always thought, what kind of person can live without their mini?! 😔 But you know what? 3 years ago I found my fiance.. a great man who takes care of her like his own!! And you will find the same!! She of course knows that's not her dad, but blood doesnt matter because he's there everyday, cooks for her plays with her, loves her! And that's what truly matters.. You show your child love and that's all they will need ❤
Sometimes a woman has to play both roles. But that shows your baby that you are strong enough to do what needs to be done
@krissilacalderon I will and thank you. Sometimes you have to separate yourself from negativity a find something that makes you stressfree like going somewhere you enjoy relaxing at. For instance when i stress out i go to the beach. The beach is like my home where i can relax and clear my mind.
Stay strong hun. You can message me if anything. Me and my baby's father still live together but he's been stressing me out too much causing me to have pain. He shows no care in the world. And honestly I love him but during pregnancy the baby's health is most important. Don't feel alone. As women we have that motherly instinct in us and everything will be okay. You got this girl!!!
@juliaschade41 Its okay... i just pray he get his act together and at least be in his child life
@juliaschade41 Thank you. And i know we both got this we just have to be strong. but its so hard realizing that you put your all into a relationship thinking he is in love with you and you having his baby will at least make him see if you are okay but he cant even get a call to see if you and the baby is okay....
@tayler Awww thanks