So my husband told me years ago that he almost had sex with someone a year before we even met. I…

Have him go with you why wait ? 🌻

He knows what he did and he should be tested

He should be tested too

@beebaby you make it sound like he did he something bad.

@bugs039 he has a different doctors office than me. He is making an appt now.

Okay I'm lost. He touch a woman's vagina that isn't yours with his penis. Is that a good thing

If this happened before he even met you why didn't it come up during your first pregnancy?

He had to have got it after the second kid for it to show up now. He couldn't have got it 3 or 4yrs ago and you just now getting it.

Yea i agree with@tiredmom if it happened before yall met it would have came up sooner like during your first pregnancy not now...

@ssdj4, I would make him come as well, because honestly his story sounds sketchy..:.i agree with the other ladies the timeline don't add up

@kyenkenmom @tiredmom that was the first time I had ever gotten tested so no it isn't sketchy.

@beebaby a year before we met.

@joanaa they didn't do std tests with my pregnancies.

He didn't fucking cheat. He's not an asshole and he knows better. He didn't lie about hours or where he was cause he would come home right after work and his paychecks were what they should have been. Not all men are cheaters. Quit accusing him of shit!

@ssdj4, but you just now having symptoms...if it was before your marriage you would of been had symptoms plus you done had two kids with no symptoms or signs now all of sudden you do

@kyenkenmom it can take YEARS to show symptoms.

@ssdj4, not trying to offend you but please read your post again and tell me if it adds up to you

@ssdj4, I think you need to speak with your husband because from what I know they do test for all these stds when pregnant for baby's safety so this had to have happened recently.

and my baby daddy used to come straight home from work and his paycheck made sense too and he still found the time to cheat so that don't mean anything if they wanna cheat they will find a way

@joanaa i have talked to my husband! They didn't test. The didn't do any kind of testing when I was pregnant. I went to a pretty shitty doctor but i saw a specialist more so I wasn't worried about it

@joanaa HE HASN'T FUCKING CHEATED ON ME. if you continue to accuse someone you have no fucking idea about, get the fuck off my post!

@ssdj4 if you had 2 pregnancies where you were never tested for STDs you can sue them. Clamitia can cause you child to be blind, even if it's dorment. If that's how it really went down I would be raising hell with your obgyn

@tiredmom well my kids aren't blind so it's pointless

Ohhhh

Have you called and asked your doctor if you were tested? It is seriously concerning if you weren't during your pregnancies and you should consider filing a malpractice suit. Something might not have happened to your children due to negligence but it could happen to someone else's and that doctor needs to lose his license if he is not following proper protocol

Um maybe its yeast?

@cori.severs I'm pretty sure it isn't. I've done treatments for yeast and it did nothing.

@ssdj4 Have you guys made a doctor appointment yet?

@cori.severs I got tested today. He's being tested in the morning

Gosh..

@starliightt what

@ssdj4, I was "goshing" at the hostility.

@starliightt well everyone was accusing him of cheating when he didn't cheat. This was the first time I had been tested for stds and it can take YEARS to show up. But either way I got treatment for it and hopefully soon I get results back soon and know exactly what is going on.

@ssdj4, I am glad you were able to get treatment.

@starliightt thanks :)

So did both of y'all results come back negative or positive?

@toya_malone both came back neg

Okay good!!! I'm happy for both of you.